Is it possible to move backwards in a relationship?

Question

The reason I agreed to see him naked and have him touch me is because I wanted affection and to feel that a man felt like he owned me. and that I was his property. It's how I interpret and register love. I enjoy touching his private area when he's wearing his underwear, but when he takes it off, I don't enjoy seeing him full out naked and same also. I enjoy making out with him and kissing. but when he goes too far. I don't like it all however I let him go all the way because I never experienced it before and I wanted to try it. now I've done so and I decided I don't like it but I think he will be weirded out if we are showering together, seeing each other naked, touching each other, and then all of a sudden. nothing below the belt.

Answer 1

You sound like although you're somewhat curious... You're still very apprehensive about becoming completely intimate with this person.  The teasing and touching is always sensual and exciting, but the actual act takes a bit more.

Me personally, I can't be intimate with someone that I don't have an emotional connection to... It just doesn't feel right for me and who knows maybe that's your delimma...  It's one thing to fool around and get horny with some, but it's another to have s*x.  For some, it's nothing to have s*x with someone, but for other's it's more personal.

Just take your time and if you feel rushed or uncomfortable, then tell him, but don't put yourself in an uncomfortable situation.

Answer 2

just tell him your not ready for all of that and you gave it a try for him, but realized its not for you right now, your not comfortable, and that you wanna take things slow so that you can get more comfortable and confidant.

Answer 3

In love, s*x is not always everything. If there is no real love and committment on a relationship, then it is likely to move backwards. If you don't get over the physical aspects of your relationship and move to a higher level, then it's likely to move backwards.

Answer 4

maybe he will, but if he is... he's not worth your time.  

Answer 5

there was nothing wrong with MY perception of "our relationship". I am as much a woman as I am everything else, I am all included. If I have to chose between my spirit and my body, here I rather chose my body. I would rather be a woman than a teacher, it is such a sick position. Full of sick people. No, I dont regret anything that happened, I am not some sick weirdo like you that f+s somebody, the most sacred of all, and then comes with all this false morality nonsense, my body is as valuable as any other part of me, everything contributed to the realization. You are so sick in your mind that it would take ages till you get rid of this sickness, Look how strong that sickness is when with such passion and strength you have mistreated and abused an innocent person. It would take ages, if ever. Realization is not a birth right. The struggle and decision is a part of it. You may decide to turn around, there is a jungle of misinterpretations and jungle of false teachers, so many ways to turn yourself away from the Truth. Heaven is not for the indeterminate....I feel so raped to be led so far without thinking BEFORE how far you were ready to go. What a terrible terrible spoil of ones soul.  

Answer 6

You can try not  seeing his privates as you handle them.

There are other ways of love than vaginal, you know. You might try those methods from behind, to avoid seeing his.