Is it possible to start over in a relationship?

Question

When you know a persons flaws and dont like them? Will they change?

Answer 1

You can not change that person, they have to change themselves

Answer 2

they prob wont change...thats y u have to except people as they are.

Answer 3

Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg

on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but

many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring

could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your

spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk

honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more

serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a

blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If

you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it.

http://howtogetmyexback1.blogspot.com/

Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when

you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love

isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may

just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in

love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you

don't think you like the person anymore.

Answer 4

You should never change a person, if you love them you learn to love them flaws and all.

Answer 5

Yes, absolutely.  I'm thinking of starting over with my wife of 12 years.  Her only flaw is that she won't have s*x, and I'm ready to start over as soon as she changes that flaw.  Otherwise, she's perfect.

Would have been nice to be stuck with some different imperfections, though.

Answer 6

Don't ever start a relationship or return to a relationship in hopes that someone will change.  You need to be able to accept them for who and what they are.  If you've already been down that road and know you can't deal with it then please don't put yourself right back into that same situation.

Answer 7

I depends, I don't beleive in starting over, I myself cannot do it, others can. Some stuff I jsut can't forget

Answer 8

Leave now...

You can't change someone into what you want them to be. They are who they are. I think everyone has flaws , nobody is perfect.

Answer 9

Why do people keep wanting to change people who don't want to change?

Move on and find someone else.