Is it pregnancy, or something else, that makes a woman NOT have s*x with anyone?

Question

Note: I'm not referring to repelling persons here...

A woman needs to know the person (atleast to some extent) before having s*x with him. Many attribute this to pregnancy (ie it's an investment and she has to deal with it for 9 months)

But I believe that there are ways to avoid pregnancy, like using condoms and doing it in a particular position, taking pills, abortion, etc etc.

So that would mean it's not an investment anymore?

Answer 1

maybe she just not sexually attracted to anyone...

yet.

Answer 2

To some, yes.  But I think nature will always prevail, and nature does not account for condoms, hormonal birth control or abortion.

Answer 3

I have one word for you. Menopause!

Answer 4

I don't think anyone is good enough to have s*x with me.

The idea of some loser having access to a part of my body that's rather intimate doesn't sound appealing. Even if I wanted some sort of pleasure I could always just buy some toy online that would please me far, far more than any mortal man ever could.

Best of all, I'd catch no diseases, I wouldn't get pregnant and there's no foreign slime involved! Jesus, maybe I should start shopping...

Answer 5

i know loads of girls that have s*x on one night stands or a casual basis. its their choice (as long as they are single) but it is more common than you think (well here in England anyway)

Answer 6

There is no one reason that explains why a particular woman won't have s*x with a man/several men.  It is her choice...maybe she's waiting for marriage, maybe she just doesn't enjoy s*x, maybe she hasn't found someone she feels comfortable enough with whom to get naked....I could go on.

I need to address your comment about avoiding pregnancy - doing it in certain positions will NOT prevent pregnancy. Just to avoid further confusion - Mountain Dew does not lower your sperm count and "pulling out" doesn't mean some sperm didn't get inside.  

Answer 7

Yes, the main reason I abstained from s*x was the possibility of pregnancy. Contraception isn't 100 percent effective, and abortion wouldn't be an option for me because I don't agree with it. I waited until I was in a long term relationship and financially stable, because I feel that's the most responsible thing to do - I wanted to make sure I was in a position to successfully raise a child, should it happen. I also wanted to wait for someone I really loved, a man who would happily support his child and me. I think there is a biological component to it on some level, but it's also a matter of respecting my body and planning for the future.  

Answer 8

not wanting to get pregnant is 1 of the best reasons to say NO to a guy pressuring u for s*x...  but its not the only reason... not wanting diseses is another gud reason...  plus we women jus dont live for s*x like u guys do...  we have other things in our lifes...  an s*x is only gud for guys anyways... its lousy for us...

Answer 9

Hm.That question can go in several directions.

I have seen women turn L*****n due to males treating them like dirt.

Some women refuse to marry,have offspring due to being treated poorly.Not having met an ideal male counterpart.Maturity etc.Being tied down due to having a child while the male runs ramp id.I could go on.You get the meaning.And then theres child birth.Once one has had one child they sometimes don't want anymore.(like me)Nothing wrong with that.Yea,condoms are good IF one uses them.

PS.abortion isn't birth control.One wants to prevent prenancy~not distroy it.

Than again sometimes its just the way some guys treat girls.

Answer 10

I enjoy s*x and do not worry about pregnancy since I was in my teens.  I have always had a strong desire and think most women would if there were not the waning concept that for women to like s*x is somehow "wrong".

I am sorry I cannot be of more help in this area.  My best guess is that if a woman in an adult relationship does not want to have s*x, it is not fear of pregnancy, but just not feeling ready yet to move the relationship to that point.  I see lack of desire as a dysfunction in marriage that might need to be addressed in counseling.