Is it rape? ?

Question

okay so say you do willingly give your friend head and then you figure out he doesnt like you how you like him but you ARE friends so you hang out and he forces you to give him head by saying if you dont then, he is going to tell everyone or he will hurt you, things like that that FORCE you to do it is it rape?

if not what do you call it? please help

Answer 1

Sounds more like verbal abuse and intimidation. You didn't actually perform the action against your will and hopefully won't either.  

Answer 2

Not rape, since there was no sexual intercourse. This is more of Improperly forcing or touching a person which is less severe but you still go to jail.

Rape, sometimes called sexual assault, is an assault by a person involving sexual intercourse with or sexual penetration of another person without that person's consent. Rape is generally considered a serious s*x crime, as well as a civil assault.

The rate of reporting, prosecution and convictions for rape varies considerably in different jurisdictions. The rape of women by men is by far the most frequent form of the assault.[1] Studies have found that most rapes are committed by persons known to the victim, and that only 2% are committed by strangers.[2]

When part of a widespread and systematic practice, rape and sexual slavery are recognized as crimes against humanity and war crimes. Rape is also recognized as an element of the crime of genocide when committed with the intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a targeted group.

Though definitions vary, rape is defined in most jurisdictions as sexual intercourse, or other forms of sexual penetration, by one person ("the accused" or "the perpetrator") with or against another person ("the victim") without the consent of the victim.

Answer 3

Rape usually refers to sexual intercourse, so this case would be called sexual abuse.

I hope this isn't something you've encountered.  If so, he's not a friend anymore.  He's a guy with severe mental problems that needs to wake up, possibly by law enforcement officials.

And if it's you in the picture, then it's time to wake up yourself too and be more careful about your own sexuality and "friends".

Answer 4

You should not be hanging out with criminals. This is pressure, not rape. I call it stupidity to ever see this person again.  

Answer 5

if a person forces someone to do something, and says if you dont do it, they will tell someone / do something, then it's blackmail.

Blackmail is a VERY serious crime, you can get put in jail for a very VERY long time for blackmailing someone.

Tell the police.

Answer 6

If it isn't consensual then its sexual assault.

If he forces you to have penetrative s*x then it's rape.

Thats about as simple as I can make it....



I will say that in court, a prior consensual sexual relationship would be bound to be mentioned by the defence, but this is still no excuse for any subsequent illegal activity including the aforementioned sexual assault.

Answer 7

that's not so much rape as it is- you need to find better "friends" and stop letting his "force" you to do things. if its more than that- tell someone, like the police.  

Answer 8

No. It is not rape. I don't believe he said anything about hurting you physically. Women twist stuff around to make it sound worse than what it is and then lie about it if caught or cry crocodile tears. You have a choice. If you don't want to, don't do it. You should have thought about it before you gave him head in the first place.

Answer 9

Yes the courts have ruled that force or the use of force to get someone to do sexual acts against their will is a rape.  

Answer 10

It's different depending in which state you live in. Some declare forced oral s*x as sexual assault, while some look at it as rape. .

The best thing you can do is go tell someone that can help you in this situation, and someone that you can trust. A parent, school counselor, a teacher, a co-worker, etc. You should be more worried about something like this will happen to you again. A person is not worth loving if they hurt and threaten you.

Answer 11

According to the dictionary, rape is:

NOUN:

The crime of forcing another person to submit to s*x acts, especially sexual intercourse.

so yes, it is rape.

Answer 12

if he threaten you to hurt you then yes it is if he just said he was going to spread some rumor about you then no but if he said if you dont do it he will hurt you or kill you or any bodily harm then it is Rape

Answer 13

Anything that someone does to force you is rape. The 1st time you done it wasn't because you done it willingly. But if you feel forced or are forced anytime thereafter, yes it is rape.  

Answer 14

that is rape. if he threatened that he was going to hurt you or tell people, that is rape. like the guy above said, bite him.

Answer 15

well u shoulda thought about why u did it in the first place and it is sexual abuse so a type of rape.  maybe he can't get action anywhere else. it is partly ur fault to

Answer 16

Anyone forcing anyone to do any sexual act of any kind is rape. People just usually just asscoiate it with guys physically hurting people. The fact is that it wasn't consentual and that is rape.

Answer 17

yes it's rape when a person tries to force you to do a sexual act it's rape but i think what he did is also blackmail/rape, tell a police officer/ school counselor

Answer 18

It is not rape.  It is called forced oral copulation  It is a crime and you need to have him prosecuted for it.  Rape is defined by intercourse penal and vaginal.

Answer 19

I think the proper term here is blackmail !!  Just telling you to do it is not rape. At that point you still have a choice. If you do it that's on you. If you don't and he physically "forces" you then that is wrong.  It is still wrong whether it's by blackmail or by force.

Answer 20

Any Sexual content that you're forced to do, or is being black mail. But in a way he's not forcing you is he? If he is then you need to tell a Adult and who cares about Black mail when every hears what he's been doing they'll pity you and hate him for his awful ways. He'll be the bad guy not you honey  

Answer 21

blackmail mostly

i guess it is rape in a different way

raping is like sorta going at a women.. usually the man doing things to the women rather than the women doing things to the man

Answer 22

WHY WOULD YOU KEEP THIS PERSON AS A ??FRIEND??  YOU NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHAT FRIEND IS AND FIEND IS!! Clearly You need to seek counseling from a trusted adult female , Go to a fire station talk to a female firefighter! They can surely give SAGE advice for the real world!!  

Answer 23

Yes I think it is tell on him now before it gets bad or something bad happens to you dont be stupid. Do it for you so you can find a good man that will love you right.

Answer 24

Depends on the state in which you live if it is rape or not.  A forced sexual act is most states is rape.

But it is definitely blackmail, coercion, and assault.  So you are looking at him committing at least three if not four crimes. CRIMES.  CRIMES!

This is not a friend.

I don't know how old you are, but if you are of legal age, get rid of the friend, go to a women's shelter or legal clinic and get more advise, and then come back to him and let him know you will be pressing charges.  He needs to be stopped.

If you are underaged, same thing.  Only let your parents know along with a school counselor.

If you cannot bring yourself to do that to your so called "friend" for whatever reason, then I would suggest telling everyone that he tried to have s*x with you, but he couldn't get it up because he has a micro-p***s.

But the man is a criminal  At least look up the definition of assault.  That is the threat of doing bodily harm on someone.  You have been assaulted.

Answer 25

its called blackmail, or its called sexual exploiting. hes exploiting you for something...on da same scale as extorting someone (threatenin them with something if they dont do something)....but thats wat its called

but dont call da police. please. leave it alone. dont subject him to jail time. just forget it. next time do it willingly. like a good girl.

Answer 26

it is sexual battery

Rape involves penetration

Either one is a crime and should be reported so he won't do it again to you or anyone else

Answer 27

Yes that is rape.

Or you can call it blackmail....

How about "sextortion?"

Answer 28

Call the police.  If it's not rape than it's extortion, or an assault of some sort.  In either case you express feeling violated and afraid for your safety.  I'm sorry for you.

Answer 29

Coming from a g*y man who is not a w***e by sleeping around with other guys. Honey, that is abuse and black mailing , so, let him tell, you can tell ppl that he's the one that asked you to do it.

Answer 30

i guess i'm odd guy out. i say no it's not rape. you say no and then report him.  

Answer 31

YES,YES! anytime you are forced or coerced into doing something against your will, even if you did it before it is RAPE!!!!!!! and i am a man and i do not believe in force.

if your a minor they call that statutory rape. and if he is of legal age he could be looking at jail.  first advice is to stay as far away as possible.then check into legal matters if you wish. you should be able to tell which answers came from ignorant, male ...