Is it rare feeling chemistry?

Question

with another person with chemistry i mean that feeling in your heart? is it something you can rarely get?

Answer 1

I think it's rare.  Did you ever meet a guy that liked you and you should have liked him nice, handsome, smart funny whatever and you tried but something just felt missing.  For whatever reason there just was no chemistry.  And on the other hand, you meet someone you know you should not like but you can't help yourself. I think chemistry is so powerful sometimes it's beyond your control-I don't know what causes it or why it's so powerful but, everyone told me not to date my husband and everyone told him not to date me. And they were probably right because at the time we were both ****ups.  Somehow though over the years we both settled down without eachother who knows.  So maybe theres something the back of your mind knows that you don't.  That really sounds crazy-So I don't know but I think it's interesting and exciting when it does happen for a while or forever.

Answer 2

Chemistry is not the same as love, and some people experience it somewhat lower than their heart. (It is *very* important to understand the distinction between chemistry and love. Neither are bad at all, just some people expect too much from simple chemistry).

And it depends on the individual. Some feel it regularly, some rarely.

Answer 3

Its not rare; it just has to be the right person.  You'll know when it happens.