Is it realistic or unrealistic to expect a man over 45 to ???

Question

to get an erection after relations?

what i mean is, lets say we are "together" during the evening, and an hour later or 2 hours later, i want him again, is he too old to keep getting erections?

does that stop after age 20 something?

what is normal for a guy?

thanks for any help.

:)

Answer 1

Depends. Like you said when a guy is young he can get one any time. I would say a normal guy over 45 should be able to get an erection 1-2 hours after intercourse if he's not drunk or too tired (actually falling asleep). If he has some phys problems, stressed out, drunk, etc., then he might have some problems.

Answer 2

Most normal men should be able to get another erection within an hour after ejaculating, but everybody is different.

I am 55 and if I want to continue sexual activitys, I never lose the erection after ejaculating. It will just stay hard.

Answer 3

I'm 57 years old and believe that cardio fitness has a lot to do with it.  I'm a fanatic cyclist and still get as hard as when I was in my 20s.  All the years of exercising and healthy eating are paying off in my later years.

Answer 4

It depends... but i think he will be OK.

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Answer 5

I have to agree with alasstud but n my case I usually only stay hard long enough to have two orgasms. Then it'll take me about 20 minutes to get it up again. All men are different and IMO I think it's primarily genetic. But 45 y/o is not old for a man having sexual intercourse. Maybe at 75??

Answer 6

I know i'm female, but I agree with the answerers.

Health has a lot to do with it. Exercise is a must, Ward hiked every day of his life during his 20's and 30's and he can perfrom like a 30 year old. he still has great muscle tone in his 50's now and it pays off. now if I could only keep up with him. does he have diabetes? or other circulatory problems? that can impede extra erections as well.

Answer 7

I am 46 and can get them a few minutes after ejaculation. Or sooner. It does depend on the person. The s*x drive can diminish considerably, but some guys are still horny at whatever age.  

Answer 8

No reason he couldn't go again.  I can, and I am several years older than that.  40's and 50's guys are still fit and capable of having great s*x.