Is it really just ME!!?? Do I leave him alone for good!?

Question

I have a friend of mine who I think is starting to lose interest in being my friend. We have had a lot of fights recently but he still seemed like he wanted me in his life. Yesterday was especially good because we talked a lot and didn't fight. He has another chick friend of his, and I notice when she's not around or busy with her bf that's when he really wants to work on our friendship. When she's around, it seems like he could care less about me. He's going away on vacation with her for 4 days. I have a feeling that whole time he won't even think of me or think to contact me. I feel stupid for trying if he only tries when it's convenient for him. Is it really me being an annoying friend or is he giving me signs to leave him alone for good?

Answer 1

You're 2nd tier and you know it. Now ask yourself do you deserve to be 2nd tier or do you deserve to be 1st class all the way. I don't know why he focuses all his attention on her, but if he's got someone to focus all his attention on, then you need the same. I don't say dump him because good friends are hard to come by, but don't count on him to jump in front of a bullet for you.

Answer 2

Research Girl nailed it.  I completely agree.  Find someone who is worth your while .  You deserve better.

Good Luck, I know and I am sorry it hurts.