Is it really so wrong to kill one self?

Question

amanda: yes i am also on antidepresants since january and they just don't work, yes its odd that a person who just hates life so much would make an anonimous atempt to reach out and tell someone about this issues to complete strangers...yes, its true maybe i want help and someone to convince me life doesn't suck as much yet by keeping all thsi misery to myself i feel i already almost dead inside.

Answer 1

You can choose, other people may not like it, but its ur choice...

Answer 2

Because a person should try to use every help they can get to get out of this situation of despair and accept help. There is a solution to most problems and if one shares those problems and thinks about it..  suicide is the easy way out of problems. I could understand it if a person was in horrible pain and nothing could be done. They want to keep their dignity and take this way out.. before they are just existing and others make all decisions for them and they suffer terribly..  then I can understand it.. a person to commit suicide must be very very desperate. I wish all people who think about it would send a signal that they need help.. then one could try and stop them and instead help them and help them to find themselves again and eventually to be glad to be alive still x

Answer 3

Your title is broken soul, it sounds like you have one indeed, no one can tell you what you have chosen for yourself but quit blaming God for your own decisions, you chose this for yourself....not him, I know this probably angers you, but truth is truth, I have watched too many people over the years with "incurable diseases" live past them, but only when the hurt inside was dealt with, who are you angry at?, who wont you forgive?..for what? The question about taking your own life is that you dont just take yours, you take the people who love you...you take a piece of their heart too. Forever. And you leave them behind to deal with your pain...You may be hurting horribly, but no matter what you suffer from, much of your pain is self inflicted, and if you had any dignity, you would want to live and stop thinking about how bad things are and start looking for solutions instead of trying to publicly get sympathy. Words hard to hear but said in love. You became sick because of the way you think, change it and you can become well. But only if you get off your pity party and quit blaming a God you dont even want to talk to. This is you...not him. But Guess what...he loves you anyway, you dont, he does. That is why you are where you are.

Answer 4

very interesting question.

Answer 5

Plus suicide doesnt make anyone happy.And for doing that,God will send you to h**l to burn for all eternity.

Answer 6

Thats a really good question.

Answer 7

i honestly don't know if its wrong, but i guess it would affect the others who are connected to you one way or the other.. we have purpose, and if you take your life, you'd not be completing what you're meant to do, atleast in this lifetime. if you think it's an awful world, why not try to do small steps to make it better..  

Answer 8

because God made you, and only God can decide when to bring you back home. Not only that, but killing yourself causes immense pain and grief to the ones you leave behind, and can even destroy their lives. Now how would that be right?!

Answer 9

Yes, we've all been there, and it's not bad.

I'm actually on medicine for depression, and from an athiest's point of view, I don't think its horribly wrong.

But i'm also a fatalist.  And I think that there's a reason you're not dead.  There's some reason down the road that'll make you believe that if you really did kill yourself, you would have missed out on this coming event.

I went through seven months of depression until my dad finally noticed and helped me out.  Keeping these thoughts in your head, like anger, will eventually build up and explode.  Trust me on this; the best possible thing you could do is tell someone who you KNOW will help you, before it's too late.  Now I have some lovely scars on my wrist and neck that I wish I had never done.

I also believe theres a reason you're asking this.  Maybe you know that people will tell you that it's not good, or you're looking for that one person who'll say go right ahead.  Nevertheless, why are you asking an entire online society what you're going to do with your life?  Regardless of what anyone says, it's ultimately your decision.  I can only hope you make the right one...

Answer 10

i think it's a selfish act.

Answer 11

A lot of the reason, I think is that a year down the line, the suicidal person might not feel the same way. Or, if the person has a chemical depression problem, he can't truly make a good decision in regards to his quality of life. It's amazing how people can bounce back from horrible circumstances, like the end of your first relationship when you thought you'd never love again, and suicide takes away that chance to recover mentally and go on and live your life.

I think in some situations, like a terminal disease, it's ok though.

Answer 12

because god put's us on earth for a reason

what make's you really think he want's that to be destroyed?

n btw im not some god freak.

Answer 13

I think people should be able to decide when they want to stop living.

I don't think it's selfish, nor do I think it is cowardly.

I just think it's something that is very sad.

Suicide causes grief to loved ones.

And most importantly,  you are cheating yourself to trying to live a happier life.

There are always obstacles in life, some are just harder to overcome.

Answer 14

Wrong? There is no right or wrong ultimately. Those are just words that mean different things to different people. The question is do you want to stop the misery or your life? Would you still want to kill yourself if you were not miserable? If not than killing yourself is not the answer. It's like amputating an arm when you could've been OK with loosing a part of a finger. An overkill. I do understand how you are tired though to the point of wanting to just escape and not struggle anymore. Even this will pass. I know it's a cliche, but nothing is as constant as change, it's just the fact. Please find someone you can talk to about what you are going through, preferably someone who you trust. If all else fails we are here.

Just read your line about your disease. Sorry to hear, it must suck and it's true in some situations things like that can not be changed. But how you see them can be. How rare is the disease? I am sure even if it is very rare there are still some people that suffer from it and you can connect with those people who I am sure won't reject you. Chances are if you look you can find a support community full of individuals dealing with the same problems you are. Good luck to you and please don't give up.