Is it reasonable for me to ask to bring a friend to my birthday day out?

Question

It's my birthday soon and we're going to a theme park. I haven't asked my parents as such if I can bring a friend along, I've just hinted. Is it a reasonable request, or is it asking too much? I have no brothers or sisters so it would just be my parents and me. I want to bring a friend, but I don't want my mum to think I'm being spoiled by asking to bring someone. It will be my 16th birthday. I'm very close to my parents, so I do enjoy being with them, I'd just like a friend with me.

Answer 1

I think it is reasonable.  It is your big day so you should enjoy yourself.  Anyway it is always more fun to themepark with an even number of people.  that way nobody has to sit by themselves on the big scary rollercoasters.

I'm sure your parents won't mind at all.

Answer 2

not unreasonable by any means ....

Answer 3

I think it would be fine as long as your parents are not financially strained, as it's not just the cost to get in, but all the drinks and food that quickly add up to more than the ticket itself if you're not careful.  Asking wouldn't hurt.  You said it very nicely here, so you might want to tell them like you did to us that you do enjoy being with them, but you'd just like a friend with you also.

Answer 4

yeah

Answer 5

Oh trust me, this isn't asking for too much at all. Just ask politely and don't suggest that you'll ditch your parents and run off with your friend or anything like that. If your parents haven't met your friend try bringing her over a few times before the party so they can get to know her and see how she is. If your parents like somebody they usually let you do more with that person.

Answer 6

yeah.

sheesh.

its your birthday.

if it were me i wouldn't even go with my parents

Answer 7

Ask them you have nothing to loose.

Answer 8

First off I just wanted to say how impressed I was and mature this post sounded!! If only more teens had the same care, outlook, courtesy, and attitude as you!!!!  Your parents should be very proud!!!

Umm, if money is an issue then it may be a bit of a strain and maybe she could pay for herself or half?? But if thats not an issue, I'd ask what could it hurt? Just ask them the same way you have on here, they will respect that.

Answer 9

It is definitely not unreasonable to ask your parents to bring a friend to the theme park.  You might be uncomfortable asking them but just do it so you know if they can afford it or not because they should pay if you invite someone.  You are a very humble, sweet and considerate16 year old.  I know a lot of 16 year olds and they sound nothing like you!!  I really hope that you do ask them and they say yes.  If not, you've lost nothing.  I'm sure you'll have a good time anyway.

Answer 10

Yeah its reasonable, Its your birthday.

Answer 11

Show them your question.. But really i think you should be open about it .  I don't think they would mind, except maybe financially unless your friend could help out with her part.

Answer 12

A birthday is always something special you should feel free to ask but be prepared for them not to be able to afford it. If you have a friend in mind just ask your parents if your friend can come. Just don't get greedy and ask for all of your friends to come and don't mention to your friend before hand because if they say no she will be really disappointed.

Answer 13

You should definitely ask.  It's not an unreasonable request and is pretty normal in my book.  Ask to bring along a friend that they like and get along with and you'll most likely get the answer you're looking for.

Answer 14

I cant see the harm in asking, the worst they can say is no, its worth a shot. Just let them know you love spending time with them, but you would like a friend to come along too, also tell them it will even up the numbers so you can all go on rides together and have a partner to sit next to.

Answer 15

Not at all unreasonable! if ur an only child and especially it's ur 16th birthday!!?!???!? i think ur parents should have offered u! but u should make sure ur friend's parents can fork up at least a lil money, if not for gas, then at least the park fee or something... Even if ur parents choose not to accept it, it's tha thought that counts in this situation, but definetly go for it and ask them, it's not too much.

Answer 16

i would... its your birthday...you need someone your age there to have fun with as well...but i would ask if you need to tell that friend to bring money or are they going to pay cuz that might make them upset

Answer 17

if you're about to be 16 and you're close with your parents, it would see about it.