I am a 23 yr old military woman. The military has given me opportunities to learn and grow that no other career field could have given me. I love being in the military. Part of me wants to stay in and retire at 20 years in service. The other part of me wants to be Betty Crocker and bake cupcakes all day, be a mother and have children, the works.
Recently, this urge to have children has gotten stronger. I know military families have children all the time. However, I've seen how children can be shuffled around to other family members (like the grandparents) when both the parents are deployed.
I'll be 38 when I retire, if I decide to stay in that long- that's almost to late to think of conceiving naturally. I feel trapped between wanting to be a mom and my military career. Is it right for the child to compromise between the two?
Can anyone who's dealt with this situation before (Mom, Dad, or child) give me advice?
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