Is it right that my future wife, continue to call her ex b-f's that want her back? ?

Question

My future wife don't tell me that she loves me anymore, she wear skin tight jeans, tops. Everything has to be 2 sizes to small. every conversation ends in a debate. she think it,s ok to continue to talk to other men and she always aggressive. but she say i'm being insecure. is she right?

Answer 1

any woman who loves and respects her man is doing him an injustice, and if she is showing signs of straying now, best to reevaluate this girl,and just don't go there if your a smart boy.these clues usually do not manifest so early in a relationship, and certainly never during an engagement when things should be at their best.

Answer 2

well I like my woman to dress well which she does, but if it was S****y... well definitely not on. Actually I don't find it attractive anyway so I don't hang with women with that sort of dress sense anyway. Tell her to take a hike and find a woman more suited to you.

Answer 3

Nope. Call this wedding off asap. She is being inconsiderate and immature. She is making it very obvious that your attention is not enough and she still needs it from other men. She clearly is not in the state of mind to understand what it takes to make a marriage work and that there is no place for this kind of head game. You either respect your partner or you don't. She not only behaves inappropriately but then tries to turn it around to make it seem like you have the character flaw. (?) Does that seem right to you? Marriage is hard enough when you start out with rose colored glasses...you are already starting out with nothing but problems.  

Answer 4

I think your future wife is acting selfish for not considering your feelings, and acting like a w***e for the dress and carrying on with ex boyfriends.  Get rid of her now while she's still your future wife.

Answer 5

Yes, she is right, you are insecure and you have the right to be.  She has caused you to be that way and it is not fair to you.  She is not serious about her relationship with you because she still wants to play the field.  You need to leave her and do it before you two get married.  Don't marry her under these conditions.

Answer 6

Jack, I think that she is your future ex-. I suggest that you make her your ex-future wife, rather than your ex-wife, who will cost you a lot of money for a divorce.

Regards,

Dan

Answer 7

Unfortunately this is a sign of whats to come. If you go threw with the marriage after she has been acting like this she will think she can continue to act this way and her thinking will be "if he(you) allowed it to happen before you got married it must be okay now". Don't let her use you this way, find someone who will give you the respect you deserve. Good luck.

Answer 8

No I don't think it's right for her to call her ex-boyfriend especially when she is gonna marry you ,its wrong.she has no respect for you at all.if she stopped saying that she loves you it's bcuz she still loves her ex.& probably is cheating on you with him.you have the right to be insecure.she still talks to her ex.you deserve someone better.You do   not need to marry her.let her go.you need to tell her how you feel.whatever you say to her make sure she knows your being serious ok.good luck.  

Answer 9

She's a beotch trying to play you or her ex bfs.  Either way it is not good.  Boot that hoe to the curb.

Answer 10

Drop her like she's hot. She's got other men. She wants your money. She wants her future cars. Once she's done with you, she will toss you like a used napkin.

You don't want a woman like that. No matter how much she begs, don't let her marry you.

You don't need her. She needs you. She's like a parasite. Parasites need a host or else they wither.

Kick her to the curb.

**** b*****s, get money, brother.

Answer 11

If she is complaining that you're insecure because of her behavior..then she isn't ready to get married and neither are you...at least to each other. How would she feel if you started talking to an old G/F or talking to other women? if her answer is anything but I would feel suspicious..then she is lying.

Answer 12

Sounds like a big red flag, I would run the other way. She should not be talking to her ex bf's that want her back. She does not sound committed to your relationship.

Sorry

Answer 13

agree with Tom.

Answer 14

I think she's WRONG!!    no it's not right   she should be concentrating and working towards a future with you