Is it right to have s*x at 14?

Question

this guy i have been with wants to have s*x, we are both 14, it is right, i am not sure if i am ready or not. he says he wants his first to be with me. i need help

Answer 1

its pretty much up to you, but i would recommend not doing it. do you really want to waste that with someone who is not going to be with you forever?  

Answer 2

s*x is for marries couples-according to the bible. i would wait!

Answer 3

Sweety, purely based on the fact your asking if you're ready means that you're deffinately not. 14/15 is a young age to have s*x, even if you feel old enough. As for having s*x as a birthday present isn't the way to go about things, s*x isn't a present, its a bond between to people and about love and showing your feelings to your partner.

Please wait hun x

Answer 4

If you're not careful, you're the one who's going to wind up with the "birthday pressie".

Answer 5

if you really like him then there's nothing wrong with it, just be sure you do actually like him enough to have s*x with him.

Answer 6

Well I had a 14 year old girl pregnant at my school.But I think its absolutly outrageous to have s*x at that age.

Answer 7

no its not right. your too young. and just think your only a virgin once, so you will want your first time to count and be memorable. but in a good way.

Answer 8

if ur not redi dont do it even if u are dont do it! its not rite because u could get pregnant and it wouldnt even feel good because ur v***** is 2 small.if u are use a condom..

Answer 9

do you want the long answer or the short one well the short ones NO and the long ones NO as well so make your own mind up

Answer 10

If you're ready go for it. I'm 15 and lost my virginity recently so I can tell you first hand that if you're not ready, it's not comfortable, and you'll probably regret it, but then again, if you're prepared then there's no reason why it won't work out... So, talk to him a bit more, make sure you have appropriate protection and make sure you don't get pushed into something you don't want to do...

Answer 11

Nope not wrong at all I'm 14 and I'm having s*x all it really depends on is how mature and responsible you and your partner are if you can trust him with your virginity and trust he wont hurt or abuse you physically, mentally, and emotionally then go for it its all on you!!!!

GOOD LUCK xoxo♥  

Answer 12

It is neither legal, nor desirable.  I was 17 when I first had s*x and it was too young for me.  Of course he wants to, he is a boy.  It's all they think about at that age.

Answer 13

its your choice as long as you know what to do and you are well protected and you are willing to do it i dont really think theres anything wrong with it just make sure family doesnt find out as it can lead to alot of trouble im also 14 and i think if i had the chance i probably would

Answer 14

as a man, I will tell you this. Women have all the power when it comes to s*x. I could sweet talk and all that jazz and if she wants to she will, but you can't be like "come on, pleeeease!" If she doesn't want to have s*x, she won't. If you don't want to, then don't. If you're not ready, don't. If he dumps you, forget about him, he's a loser and only wanted your ********. Do it when you're ready, and be safe. ALWAYS!

Answer 15

is right to have s*x when you prepare and know what the h**l you doing. remember safe s*x, but i wouldnt recommended you guys are to young

Answer 16

you are WAY to young to be having s*x.  trust me, you will regret it if you do later on in life.  chances are- he will not stick around to be with you for the rest of your life.  why have s*x with somebody that you know wont be there for you!?  14 is way too young to know what true love is and to know anything about relationships, hence, way too young for s*x.  please save yourself the heartache and dont do it.

Answer 17

He has to wait until your (and his) 16th birthday.  

Answer 18

If you not sure whether you're ready or not then the chances are that you aren't ready. I wouldn't have s*x until you are 110 percent sure you are ready because you don't want to have s*x and then regret it afterwards.  

Answer 19

No it isn't right and boys that age just want to use you for s*x too. It's not worth ruining your body for.  

Answer 20

Like a teacher once told me, "when in doubt don't".  That is usually your gut feeling telling you something is not right about this situation.  This saying can go for a lot of things in life. People pushing you into situations you don't really want to do, like drugs, alcohol, driving crazy, driving while drunk etc. these situations will come up.  Be strong.

Let me inform you about guys and s*x, even my husband said this, "males are nothing but snakes in the grass waiting".  Guys will tell you anything to get s*x (I was a girl once, now married for 35 yrs.).  They make it sound all special so they can have s*x and believe me that's all it is to them at this age and most any age.  He isn't old enough to take care of you, so why else whould he want you to have s*x?.  If he loves you, he won't ask you to do such a thing at your young age.

I am also a nurse..  Have you thought about sexually transmitted diseases?  What if you get pregnant?  Are you ready to give up your young life which is just starting to have a baby?  You would probably resent the child.

Think about this.  Its your body. Love it. Save it for later when you want to get married to that special guy you love  so much that you can't wait to see everyday.  The one YOU want to spend your life with.  s*x is very special because its you giving yourself to someone you love more than anyone else. You might think that now, but most likely he just wants s*x, bottom line.  Listen to your gut, once your virginity is gone, its gone.  This goes for guys too!

Answer 21

The fact that you're asking this question means you're not ready, so wait til you're a bit older or just feel ready.

Answer 22

If your not sure then don't. Wat til u r married. It is both unsafe and immoral. What if u get prego? wat r u gonna do then?

Answer 23

Yeah I did . . ;) . . if you feel your ready.

Answer 24

my my opinion yeah 14 is too young, even 15. your still a kid to be honest, not to sound patronising. at your age its about having fun, save all that shizz till your a older. plus if hes suggested it, im sorry to say but i might wanna reconsider the relationship with him. if he loves you, he'll wait. when your older, it wont be so awkward,embaressing and youll have some idea of what your doing. now it could turn out a fumbling mess lol

Answer 25

No I'm 14 i wouldn't dream of it kiss hug and what ever else you want but not s*x !

Answer 26

Right is an odd word to use, but is you insist on using it I will too. No I don't think it is right. Having s*x with you is a criminal offence. Not all laws have been sensible or just but this one is there to protect you from exploitation.

Answer 27

wait a while

Answer 28

No it is disgusting, save yourself till your older and tell that boy to go home and play with himself.

Answer 29

i'm italian.........in italy the women that have s*x at 14 are speaken : TR0.I.E............

FOR ME.....this is a yuor choice.......only you know if this is correctly or not.......

but...........wait.....because there are too things that you can make......!!!!!!!the s*x is'nt only thing for a good enjoyment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!ok????

waittttt

bye....

Answer 30

Please don't do it.

You'll only regret it afterwards.

It is not all you think it is, given the awkwardness and all.

Save yourself until you are more mentally mature.

Answer 31

you shouldnt only do it if you're ready! dont do something that you are going to regret later. just make sure that you really think its something that would take your relationship forward; theres no legal age to lose your virginity.

good luck! :)