Is it right to permanently humiliate people?

Question

There are some people I don't like and I think they should be permanently humiliated because of it. is it right to do it?

Answer 1

In what way is that accomplishment going to profit you besides the temporary satisfaction of getting back at your enemy, is a good question to ask yourself.

If what goes around comes around then you will be in for one big surprise, because there is always someone more stronger, faster, smarter or more wicked than yourself, and to stop the cycle of unhealthy thoughts and actions, it must stop from you first.

He who lives by the sword, dies by the sword.

And the unhappiness continues....

Answer 2

A lot of people will give you a long answer saying its wrong. Humility is necessary. America as a whole has traded humility for audacity. Let em have it, who else is going to keep these people in line?

Answer 3

I'd like to say no, but I've just signed a petition stating the British government should only pay for a state funeral for Thatcher if they buried her alive! Thats a horrid concept that I pity her family being aware of, but I can never forgive her for what she has done to Britain. I really begrudge that they will waste three million pounds more on her.

Humiliation is abhorrent, the suffering of a victim profound. I guess you have to be sure, having tried to walk in their shoes, that they are worthy of your scorn.

It's really hard not to be a hypocrite.

Yeah yeah, humiliate me if it shakes your stick.

I think you mean m*******t. I presume you are playing games with your respondents, and  I'm not interested.

Answer 4

Well, it seems to work for Rex BB9  !

Answer 5

its wrong. like put yourself in their shoes. people deserve second chances and ruining the chance at that is unjust. also you probably dint have a good reason to dislike them, maybe your jealous, get over it. if you hate them because they treat you badly, confront them about it. if they hurt you, you be the better person and walk away. two wrongs do make a right.

Answer 6

well i don't believe that it's right to do it, but i know how you feel.  i can't stand it when i hear people talking trash about someone they don't even know, i can't stand it when someone is clearly doing something wrong and everyone knows it, you point it out several times, and yet that person still seems to get rewarded.

and it's funny because i have learned to distance myself from such people and keep my mouth shut, and low and behold even THAT makes people talk.

i still don't believe it would be right to have permanent humiliation pasted, stapled, painted, or whatever, put on that person/people though.  cuz that would mean that eventually, you would either have to take pity on them, or that you would end up switching places with them and become just as bad as they were, ya know?  

example:  some chick talks trash everyday, you can't stand it, you tell her so, you even tell her, 'what if that was you?' and then all of a sudden it IS her, she's getting talked bad about everyday, and in the beginning you have your moment of 'haha! see what it feels like' but then if her situation is permanent...are you going to eventually feel sorry for her? or are you going to take the position she left and start talking trash about her everyday?  doesn't that make you just as bad as she was?  

i'm answering this question because i think it's interesting, i can sympathize with the questioner, and i'm assuming that you don't like those people for a valid reason.  if there is a valid reason that you don't like those people, then whatever it is that those people did will naturally not go unpunished in some form or another.

Answer 7

I don't know, would that make you a s****t?

Answer 8

as you are a narcissist, you won't be able to listen/take notice of anyone elses opinion because you'll always be right

Answer 9

No - would you like someone to do that to you just because they don't like you.

You need to realise that as you go through life not everyone will like you, and you wont like everybody you meet.

That's know as being a mature adult.  

Answer 10

If it's George W Bush, then yes.  If it's the bloke next door who has a bigger car than yours, then no.

Answer 11

In a word, no.

In slightly more than that: To attempt to belittle or humiliate a person because you feel they do not exist on your level, only reduces you to that level. This in turn can never be a positive to your own progression in life.

Answer 12

I'd vote you in as prime minister you've got it so right

Answer 13

JUSTICE HAPPENS.  

How you treat others will reflect on you.  What you do to others will someday come back on you.  Don't like that nerdy kid?  Treat him badly and he may someday be your boss.  

The best way to get ahead in the world is treat everyone the same way you'd like to be treated.  They will respond to that.  They will remember it.  And when they are in a position to help you when you need help, that will make the difference in what they do.  

Justice goes both ways.  You can gain by it or lose by it.  Your choice.  

Answer 14

No, it is wrong to do so

Answer 15

Not very much specific here by what "permanent" humiliation are you trying to point out!

Anyway, I'll guess this--- you mean you don't want to let any chance for a scope of understanding & rebound again, & not being "careful of words" while "humiliating" the person.- In that case I would say don't let the emotions take control, always keep a part of intelligence involved, seeking "revenge" can be self destructive! Hence consider all aspects!

Answer 16

No, it's not right.

Just because you don't like somebody doesn't mean that he/she deserves to be treated badly.

You know what? You're apparently not a person that listens to other people's opinion. Questioning my answer repeatedly doesn't help you any.

Do whatever you think is right and suffer the consequences since you're that smart. And don't ask questions if instead of listening you're gonna say something in return.

Answer 17

It isnt wise to do so. They will bear a permanent grudge against you and one day you may need their help. Better to make up and part as friends. You will gain their respect. This is a small world and crossing paths more than once is ever so likely.

Answer 18

I tell you a story of a boy of eleven or twelve from an extremely poor family from a somewhat dilapidated part of a society that exist as pockets of deprivation. I was not fully aware at that time that certain parts of a society could be identified as such and if done so then the people of those parts could be saved from being known as poor, deprived or dilapidated in the persons. I think we often choose not to be aware such fact about our neighbourhoods and societies as awareness always brings along appreciations, realisations of pain and suffering, amounts up to some sense of responsibility.

The boy I am going to talk about perhaps could not attend school and fell under bad influence right from the start. You can remind yourself of the fictional Artful Dodger for the purpose of figuring him in your imagination. It is just that the boy I mention was a little meaner and lot less likeable than that the character portrayed by Charles Dickens in his novel Oliver Twist. In short, the boy was a hardened thief, and a master pickpocket. The authorities could not stop him from his forays, as despite being arrested many times and punished for his crimes but he never stopped stealing and pick pocketing all over again. The police not knowing as how to save members of the public from his mischievous antics decided to put a tattoo on his forehead saying just what his interest was. Now, I understand it is almost impossible to have a tattoo removed without leaving a scare, especially when it is done most crudely and with a purpose that it could stay. I do not know what happen to the young fellow afterwards but I sometime do think about the incident - pain I still feel but the sense of responsibly, I have left far behind.

I think in order to humiliate someone permanently there has to be something absolutely right as for reason. I believe individuals are but parts of a whole society or an environment. Then if one person goes astray to do something wrong then the whole society is to be blamed. It is the responsibility of a society to target poverty, deprivation, ignorance and instances of injustice. And if there is some society in existence that is perfect, or is modeled upon some perfection for its values and beliefs where individuals can have an option to save themselves from the ills of the world, then may be someone who chose to be wrong should be demand permanently as then there would be nothing else that could be offered to that person.