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Is it rude to ask a girl for her number infront of her friend?

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I really liked this girl who I met last night (she is a friend of a friend of mine's). She was leaving and gave me a hug and said nice meeting you. I wanted to ask her for her number but she had one of her own friends with her and thought maybe it would be rude or awkward? did i do the right thing or should I have asked for her number infront of her friend?

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  1. That was a really nice thing to do. Very considerate. You should catch her when she is alone though. Just in case it doesnt hurt the other girls feelings.


  2. if you liked her you should have asked her  for her number it was just her friend

    good luck ;)

  3. no...her friend may be secretly interested in you and get hurt. it's not a crime, but it's not very nice and sensitive...

    she might blame the girl you're asking, nobody wants that!!

    just ask the girl when no one's around

  4. nope, it's not rude.

  5. You can ask in front of her friend, unless you know that her friends really likes you.  But thats the only way it would be rude.

  6. You should have pulled her aside quietly or like to go get a drink or something.

  7. you could have pulled her aside if you felt uncomfortable, but I don't think it would be rude to ask in front of her friend.

  8. i think i would have asked. i'm sure her friend wouldnt have minded. i don't think it would have been rude.

  9. no u should have asked for her number but its not tooo late. u can still ask her.

  10. I think it's fine. I myself(if I was her) would find it nice and sweet that you don't mind asking in front of her friends infact her friend might like it too.

  11. i don't think it matters if her friend was there or not... if you liked the girl, you should've asked for her number.... you can't let an opportunity pass you by

  12. Iam a girl and personally think its not rude.


  13. It would have been mildly rude but at the same time you might not see the chick again, so you should have gotten the number cause the friend would have (or at least should have) understood the situation.  

  14. i think you are a very nice young man.

    it could have really hurt the other girls feelings.

    but next time you can just ask for both of their numbers. then you have them both and if you dont want the other girls number you dont have to use it.

  15. It would be better if you say something like "Could I talk to you alone for a minute?" and then ask her number when her friends aren't there. :D

  16. There's nothing wrong with asking for her number in front of people it shows that your not shy.

  17. No  

  18. The spoils and glory of victory go to the bold.    

  19. No i do it all the time is perfectly natural just do it.

  20. oh come on !

    go out again with her and friends and come on.. :)

    dont be shy and dont care... u just asked her number

    or just do it when others are not looking!

    did u have to wait for the last moment for her number?^^

    next time just ask her... u can always use at least 5 mins with her only away from others talk with her ;) gl !

    and ye u should :PP

  21. I think timing is important so it may be better to wait but I think you could ask her in front of her friend. Or you could've asked for her myspace or facebook instead as that is less invasive. I know that I am more likely to give that to someone than my phone number, especially if we just met.

  22. NOPE  

  23. definitely not rude

  24. If the FRIEND likes you and she hasn't told you yet and you ask the GIRL for her number, she may get jealous or angry (she won't show it of course but she will be). Its good to ask for the GIRLS number but keep an eye on the FRIEND ( she will watch every move you make). Later in the relationship between YOU and the GIRL ( if you *do* her right..lol) she will tell her FRIEND everything you and her have done, If the FRIEND still has it for you this will make her want you even more. Eventually the tension will build up in the FRIEND ( she will get super hot around you) and if YOU and the FRIEND ever find yourselves alone (without the GIRL around), the FRIEND will try and **** you (Its up to you rather you **** the FRIEND too or not), but yeah is ok to get the number.

  25. Yes. It can come out as making the friend jealous. Also the girl ur asking might feel uncomfortable if saying yes or no because she might be judged.

  26. It was good that you didn't ask in front of her friend. You can just ask for her number later because you said that she's a friend of a friends, its not like you'll never see hewr again. It would have been rude in front of her friend.

  27. if the friend likes you then yahhhh

    help with mine

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  28. no i dont think so

    my ex asked for my number in front of my mom and my mom was the one who told him to do it.

    its not rude.

  29. h**l no! it will give the girl the feeling she is the most good loking girl in the world

  30. If the other girl likes you than ya!

  31. You should have asked for it.
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