Is it rude to ask a girl to spoon feed me on the 1st date???

Question

I like to reverse the roles, guys need the door opened for them every now & then & fed, but if i ask her to spoon feed me on the 1st date is it to soon?

normally i ask on the 2nd date.

Answer 1

What are you looking for someone who will wait on you hand and foot? Please don't make that mistake. You will regret it when she finally wakes up and realizes you for the pig you are and takes your house, children, and half your cash and finds a real man who sees women as equals.

Answer 2

Sounds to me like you need to date a guy.  If you want the door opened for you and the roles to be reversed, try going out with a man that will let you be the woman.  Have fun!  :)

Answer 3

Spoon-feeding is an intimate action, and few sober women would be comfortable with that sort of intimacy on a first date.  It doesn't matter who's being fed.  

Besides, it's kinda odd to *ask* someone to spoon-feed you.  I'd probably think you were a bit of a freak or had a fetish or something, and not want a second date.

Answer 4

lol, omg i dont know. but i thnk that it depends on the personality on the girl, because like if she has a sence of humor she'd probally go for it, but if its like a serious chick, i wouldnt ask. lol

Answer 5

It's not rude to ask.  Weird, yes.  But not rude.  I wonder how many third dates you get....

Answer 6

Will you be wearing diapers and have a pacifier around your neck?  I'm guessing you have a lot of first dates only.

Answer 7

no, as long as you wait for the 3rd date to ask to eat sushi off of her naked body (they really do this in Japan...or so I'm told ;)

Answer 8

you are daft.  

Answer 9

Seriously- that's quite creepy actually. If a guy did that to me I'd excuse myself to the restroom and get the h**l outta there! It's one thing to be offered it (by her of course) but to ask her "Can you feed me?" Come on now. Wait till you guys are officially together and have been dating awhile.  

Answer 10

ya, don't ask a girl to do that man. That is something that would have to be done way down the line in the relationship. If you ask her to do that she will freak out on you and you will never hear from her again.  

Answer 11

Ummmmm yes, just a little.  

Answer 12

Yes its rude. Don't ever ask a girl to do that.  

Answer 13

You're weird.  I'll bet you haven't had many 3rd dates in your life.  With this new idea I doubt you'll have any 2nd dates.

Answer 14

Yes, it's too soon. So is the second date. In fact, wait until the subject comes up (and it will). Everyone has their little quirks, and I guarantee you that the subject will come up after a few dates of what you like in a girl, at which point you can say, "I have to admit, I have a bit of a thing for being pampered. Stuff like having the door opened for me, even being fed." A lot of girls actually love that kind of thing, but it's not really an appropriate thing to demand before being asked.

For the first month or so of dating, you should really focus on getting to know the person, and seeing what kind of person they are. Things like being spoon-fed are really easy to throw in later, but getting to know someone takes time.

Answer 15

Why?  Are your arms broke?  Yes its rude!  If a guy did that to me, I would get up from the table and leave the restaurant and grab the first bus or taxi home!