Is it rude to stare when there is a strip poker involved?

Question

Hi all, I was invited to a friend's house for a party Friday night. Alcohol was served and everyone was feeling good about themselves and conversing with each other. A litle later a deck of cards was brought out, and a few people decided to play poker with no money involved. By close to midnight everyone was pretty heavily intoxicated and someone suggested to play strip poker. There were a lot of volunteers from men and women alike. And to make it interesting I was staring at one of the female poker players let's just say she was "well endowed" and was already topless. She got mad at me for staring at her jugs! I am like, what the heck? Do I need to explain how men work? Am I right or wrong here? Ladies your opinions please? If you can't handle it, then don't play it. To the ladies out there, have you experienced playing strip poker? If not would you try anything once? And why would you get mad if the guys are checking you out. By the way I wasn't staring, I was just "glancing."

Answer 1

I have played strip poker lots of times and its supposed to be fun. ONce, before I lost my bra one of the guys said, 'I bet you look better without clothes', and when I lost my bra he said, 'I was right, you do look better without clothes', and smacked me on the butt. That was that, and everyone laughed, and I did too.

Some of you think that she took off her top before she lost and posted that she had a problem when the poster stared at her.

I think it is kind of rude to stare longer than 3 seconds. It doesn't take long to give an appropriate compliment. I know that when I have been drunk my ability to judge how long I am staring or glancing at a guy can get pretty distorted.

Answer 2

If anyone has a problem with others staring during strip poker, then they shouldn't participate. The point of playing is so that you can see the goods!

Answer 3

You're being a pig.

I'm a guy, and I can control myself. It's rude to stare, to cut it out.

Answer 4

I have played before, and unless you are really good you know the clothes are coming off at some point. I'd say she knew what she was getting into and if your gonna put them out be prepared for people to look. I'm sure if you were the one sitting there with your jewels out, people would be looking too.

Answer 5

I've played before; you play you risk at losing; she should have never played, that was her fault.  She made her bed and when she had to lie in it she didn't like it.  I think a lot of the men around here would let her get away with murder.  A woman wouldn't. I'm a woman.

Answer 6

I did once, in my youthful, desperately insecure days. I'm a little ashamed of such trashy episodes now at nineteen. I cannot believe it as I am quite the lady in these present times. I cannot speak now, as I simply would not play it now but I was wilder then and a girl willign to play strip poker knows what the game entails and cannot get angry for her decisions

Answer 7

I would have to agree with other answer, women get nervous if stare at their naked b*****s for to long. Next time wear dark sunglasses,

Answer 8

She is an idiot. Common sense tells us that if someone takes their clothes OFF they want to be seen. You should have put her drunk A$$ in a taxi and sent her home. Sounds as though she was playing in the wrong league. This could have been the beginning of a big brawl.

Answer 9

A gentleman doesn't stare under any circumstances. What you thought was a glance was apparently too long and/or too often for the woman. Practice at looking when she isn't.

Answer 10

Yikes!  Tough situation.  She obviously needed more alchohol before playing.  You probably shouldn't stare, but she should have no expectations of privacy when sitting nake in a public place.  Ahhh drinkin, makin bad decisions...love it.