Is it selfish for me to require my friend that works with the homeless to spend more time with me?

Question

shes been extra busy this holiday season and i feel neglected

Answer 1

It's beyond selfish. Other than treating you with resepect, you shouldn't "require" anything from your friend.

Answer 2

***** the homeless, they'll still be homeless tomorrow right?  You're much more important.

Answer 3

Absolutely.  what kind of a prick are you.

Answer 4

Since that lying w***e gets paid for her "good deeds" then no, it's perfectly fine.

Answer 5

you are the most unselfish, humble, and starved for attention guy I know.

Answer 6

then go and help him or her, then you will be spending time togther

Answer 7

Maybe you should get a job too, so that you have something to keep you busy while she's out making money to support herself.

Answer 8

No its not selfish.  You deserve some lovin too.  Who are those homeless people to her anyways.  Its not like she knows them.

Answer 9

I'm smiling.  First time all day.  Thank you.  **EDIT - No worries.  I'm sending ole dude up there a list of your other requirements.**

Answer 10

People who work in that field are likely to be over burdened and underpaid, especially as the economy and funding continues to go south. I wouldn't say it is selfish to "want" more time with your friend, but to "require" it goes beyond selfish and moves toward controlling. (I'm not saying that you are--it could have just been your choice of words.)

Tell her you miss her and ask her why she needs to work so much. Maybe you could do some volunteer work in the area to better understand her perspective--you might get something else out of it, too.

Answer 11

You are absolutely right I have been neglecting you.   You are far more important than feeding, sheltering, clothing and choking chickens for the less fortunate.   I am sooooo sorry how can I possibly make this up to you?    

xoxoxox

Sorry sweets

Answer 12

Yep. Who are you to require a friend to do anything?

Oh, you feel neglected? How do you suppose those homeless people feel? This is the best way to help the homeless, better than some big government program. Let the people help them.

I'm proud of your friend, and if she considers you a friend, I'd say you're pretty lucky to have a great friend like that.

And by the way, if you reallly want to be with her, join her at the homeless shelter.