Is it so wrong...........?

Question

well,me and my best friend were talking and we were just mad at this girl who was really popular and so we were all like why do guys like her any way?shes not pretty she has pimples and stuff....so then I went to my other best friends house whom I totally trusted and she asked where I was and a I told her then she asked what were you 2 doing and I was all like oh nothing...just talking about _______then she goes what did _________ say about _______?and so I totally trusted her not tell anyone about what she said so I told her like the idiot I am.then she's all like oh.my best friend who I was with was best friends with the girl me and my other best friend were mad at so of course..the next day the best friend whom I trusted so much told her best friend what i said!i felt so betrayed and I just felt so horrible because I told her in the first place which actually ruined my trust for anyone.from this day on i trust NO ONE and I guess my best friend trust no one too cuz of me.I feel so sad now but okay.back then,i talked to my so-called best friend and yelled at her for telling _____of what me and my best friend said because _____was no longer friends with my best friend and everyone totally turned against her!they didn't even turn against me even though I said c**p about __________too and told my so-called best friend what I said too!!!it was like they were looking for a reason to hate my best friend and I was just a messenger that helped them get what they wanted!!!my so-called best friend used me to help her best friend!!!!!i just hate her now cuz everytime I tell her something private about myslef or others without making her keep it a secret,she goes and tells the whole world!!!I seriously feel bad about my best friend now cuz everyone calls her a sl*t for some reason now!!!why would they hate her for one thing that usually is forgiven if it were someone else?help me please by just making me feel better by saying how bad of a friend my so-called best friend is.i just feel awful and it has been like what?...4 years of my best friend being called a sl*t and hated.please just make me feel better for being the only person to blame.

Answer 1

i got lost.... :/

too many bestfriends

Answer 2

well if you rele felt bad about ur BEST friend getting called bad things then u would have took the blame too, instead of just sitting there

and ur question makes no sense, ur ssying too many things at once

Answer 3

4 years? You have some real losers in your school. Still talking about this after 4 years. Yeah, you did something wrong by passing on what was said, but I think everyone's in the wrong at least a bit here. She's not the only person to blame. You know that. But she shouldn't have done what she did. You know what you should to? Just tell people to get over it. 4 years. Seriously? Gossip barely lasts  4 days where I live.

Answer 4

let's chalk this one up to youth.....this is very common and the fact that it has bothered you all this time is a good thing, it means you have a conscience, hopefully you have learned from this. talking can really turn your world upside down. i hope you will think things through more thoroughly in future.