I asked a question on Thurs. about my 8 year old daughter and crying before school each day. I have been divorced since she was 3, her father plays an active role in her life. My father was diagnosed with lung cancer this summer, had surgery, prognosis is good. He is not sickly, but is getting chemo treatment and many Dr. appointments. Due to this, she attended day care over the summer, which she enjoyed at first. The last 3 wks before school started her closest friend stopped going to daycare and the crying started. Each night and every morning. Now 2 wks of school have gone and we have struggled each day. The routine is she goes to grandpas before and after school because I work and always have. Socially, academically she does fine and the school agrees. She says there are no problems at daycare or school she just doesn't want to leave me and misses me. Except for crying a couple of times at lunch recess and once during class it's before she leaves for school and the night before. She seems to pull it together quickly at school. I called psychologists ofc to make appt. They seem to think they can help. My mother thinks I'm an idiot and says she is just spoiled. I think it can't hurt to have her talk to someone to make sure nothing else is going on. It's been 5 wks and it's not getting better. I feel there was a change in her behavior that was somewhat sudden. Please any advice will help. I'm frustrated and obviously have no support from people that mean the most.
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