Is it strange that I'm 22 and in no rush whatsoever to lose my virginity?

Question

Is it strange that I'm 22 and in no rush whatsoever to lose my virginity?

Answer 1

It's no stranger than questioning the credibility of everything I observe in this 'forum' !

Answer 2

guess its okay but u semmed to b obssed abt losin it for some strange reason..

Answer 3

Not at all; I think that's a really good attitude to have. It's true that s*x is always better when you're with the right person. :)

Answer 4

It's unusual, but it's not deviant.

Answer 5

no,,,,good for you,,,

Answer 6

Stick to your guns sister. Nothing wrong with being chaste.

Answer 7

Nope, actually you should give yourself a pat on the back for waiting so long. Most women and men I know didn't even make it to 12. So you're one in the few who understand the responsibility of having s*x. I myself was about 191/2 almost 20 when I lost mine. I don't regret doing it, because I learned a lot about how s*x can complicate things. I just hope that when you do lose it, it's with someone you love and they love you the same in return.

Answer 8

Nope, its not strange. This is a personal decision. I know people who are also over twenty and in no rush to lose their virginity. Not because of religious values, or because they believe s*x is a bad thing, but because they have not come across a person or an instance where they would wish to lose it.

Answer 9

No, not at all. Once you lose it it's gone forever. You'll know when the time is right. If people get on your case about it then it only tells you how pathetic their life is that they worry about someone else's.

Answer 10

That's entirely your business.

Answer 11

No, I'm 20 & still a virgin, I plan on waiting until marriage. Good for you!

Answer 12

Nope..it's different for everyone.  There are a lot of people who don't have s*x before marriage, and some cultures see female non-virgins as abhorrent (true story). I don't agree with that thinking, but just letting you know.

Do it when you're ready.

Answer 13

No it isn't strange. You should be very proud of yourself.  Having s*x is  special and loosing your virginity should be done with a special person you care about.

I applaud people like you who wait until they know they are ready.

Stick to your guns and don't let anyone persuade you otherwise.

Answer 14

Don't feel rushed to lose your virginity. People should only have s*x because they want to, not when they feel obligated or pressured to have it.

Answer 15

Good for you.. want a clap?

Seriously though who cares if you value your virginity or not, your choice..

Answer 16

No.  You have strong values and self respect.  People should admire you.

Answer 17

no it's no strange. u are Conservative.

Answer 18

no it's not strange,and by the way,s*x is not all it's cracked up to be.

Answer 19

No it's even stranger if you find a virgin man!!!

Answer 20

That is a little strange when you consider u and I did the dance.

Answer 21

To be honest nowadays yes it is. It doesn't speak bad about you though. While I don't agree with your values I respect your choice.

Greetings.

Answer 22

I'm 23 and a virgin.

I don't see why I should risk knocking up some girl.

Answer 23

No not at all, you should wait for someone who will make it very special.

Answer 24

I think you're awesome. I honestly wish I was like you. Instead I succumbed to pressure in my teens and had a horrible experience. If there's one thing I want back it's my freakin' virginity. So I could give it to my boyfriend now who is actually worthy of it.

Go you. You should be proud.