Is it strange that i've never been in a serious relationship?

Question

I'm seventeen and have never really been in a serious relationship. I kind of want one but, all the guys i meet are so lame, there just so immature and just so not ready to be in a committed relationship. Is it unrealistic of me to think that guys my age are going to be mature and actually be interested in things other than hot chicks and getting laid?

btw i'm seventeen and still a virgin, and i plan on being a virgin until i find the right guy, if it makes any difference.

Answer 1

No that's not weird at all. You are obviously waiting for the right guy, there's nothing wrong with that.

Answer 2

no, im 17 too and ive never really been in serious relationship (i guess it depends on how you define serious). ive been in several relationships, but ive never been in a "serious" relationship or felt anything really special. lol, id like to think im mature and interested in other things than hot chicks and getting laid

lmfao, theres sports and music and videogames too

but seriously, dont worry about it its not strange. your just looking at the wrong guys

Answer 3

Sweetie at the age of seventeen, being in a committed relationship should be the last thing on your mind.You should be more concerned with getting to know yourself,discovering your likes and dislikes and just enjoying life.Committed relationships require work and allowing someone to be a part of your life on that level calls for making some major "adjustments" so don't sweat it, when the time is right,it will happen.For right now, just live,laugh and have fun.

Answer 4

I am a 31 male and am the same way. So, no, it isn't strange. It is the correct course.

Answer 5

I'm totally in the same position right now. I think it's normal. If you think about it: can you really call high school relationships serious? I think I'd rather wait for Mr. Right and have a serious relationship than live in the moment with Mr. Wrong. I think it's completely normal.