Is it stupid to pursue this dream?

Question

Ever since, I've always wanted to pursue ballet or jazz dancing as a hobby, it's just that I grew up in an enviroment where dancing for pudgy girls like me was considered "a joke". The event that ultimately shattered me was the one time I felt like talking about it. I was give or take, 7 years old. Slightly bigger than my otherwise tall slim siblings. I approached my aunt and asked if she thought I should dance, I was replied with small laughter and a "isn't that for slim people only?". That kept me mum for years. I am now 16 in first year college, still slightly leaning on the fat side since every sport and exercised I did was thoroughly discouraged since my parents think that "if i was born fat, i was born to eat" ...or something along the line. doing good in my studies and great with my friends and family. It's been a while since I considered it but after watching the rise of dance movies like STEP UP and the like, I've been considering to take up jazz dance or ballet...The questions is (Finally!after my long and I'm sure pathetic life rant:)) ) : Is it stupid to invest in something this big? Is it too late for me? and how or where can I learn? By the way, I live in the Philippines.

Answer 1

No, it's not stupid.

Dancing is like a sport too.  It can also help you loose some of your extra fat.

Since you like it as a hobby, it's never too late(if it's for career, maybe).

I don't know where or how, but you should try and find out.

Answer 2

it is never too late!!! and if it is something you really wanna do then do it.  i would check out schools that have dance programs or find a nearby studio. and remember, do it for yourself so you'll be happy. keep in mind that some of the best and well known dancers did not always have ideal bodies for the art form they chose to pursue. my ballet teacher is a testament to that.

Answer 3

isn't stupid, never is too late for study!!!!

Answer 4

Hey there! We have some things in common! Lol I am half Filipino and I too suddenly decided to pursue my long buried dream to dance at the age of sixteen. It turned out to be the best thing I have ever done. Because once you start moving (and it will take time for your body to adjust) it is just the most amazing workout and you will find yourself fitter, stronger, and more flexible than ever before. Not all dance schools are obsessed about weight; so many of them are so welcoming to new students with the love and passion for dance. So don't be shy. Do some ringing around and find a school that suits, and go for it! Dreams can only become true if you do something about them! Kisses x x x