Is it supposed to hurt this bad?

Question

So in case any of yall are actually following my questions, i finally got married this weekend! AND had s*x for the first time (im 24)

we barely have done anything these past few days because it hurt and burned so much the first time we tried it...is this normal? we tried again the second day and it was TINY bit better but still hurt like h**l...he was VERY gentle and even stopped when it became to much for me. im scared to try again lol any advice and/or tips...

Answer 1

Yes its normal for the first time to hurt, burn and be a little sore. Try using KY lubercant it will help a bunch.Good Luck!

Answer 2

Your first time is supposed to hurt. The more you have s*x over time the better it will feel.

Answer 3

Yep, the pain and burning is totally normal.  The first time I had s*x it hurt a lot, it wasn't enjoyable at all :(  

All I can say is practice... and a ton of lube.  You can't use too much lube.  It also might help to get super super aroused before you try penetration again, by whatever means floats your boat.  He can help with this too.

Congratulations also!

Answer 4

I had a very similar problem.  I just got married 5 months ago and had s*x for the first time.    I can truly say that it was the most painful thing I had ever experienced.  The burning sensation didn't last more then a week for me.  The burning sensation is probably from the hymen being torn, so it needs time to heal.  The actual pain will lessen in time.  For me it was painful for the first month.  I suggest to not "do it" two times in a row.  I was not able to do that.  The thing that helps the most is using K/Y jelly.  The more lubrication you have, the easier it is.  If it hurts to much, stop, and do it again later.  Every time you do it you will stretch more and more until it won't hurt anymore.  Good luck with you and I hope the pain won't last much longer.