Is it that he hates me?

Question

we used to be such good friends.talk alot. hang out. you know tease each other, share interests etc.

he works from overseas so i can understand he can get a bit moody sometimes. but then i found out he liked me and it all went downhill from there...

im not even sure if its me that he's even moody about. but he'd see me and be so happy, want to talk to me.

although he was a shy guy he was an outgoing guy at heart.

i thought he had a gf or something so i didnt like him but finding out that he liked me and then ME wanting to like him back was a plus.

the thing is.. i said i wanted to only be friends. i was scared, confused not knowing of whether he had someone back there. he would always seem to lie about things to me to cover himself.

its funny that so much can change a person, now its like. he avoids me at all costs when im around. hardly interacts. doesnt communicate and when i do with him, he just tilts his head for a long time and slowly turns to face me.

Answer 1

You're really examining this way too much.

Answer 2

One day you will look back on this and say how was I ever involved in some one like that.As much as you feel you need to cut this relationship,its not healthy for you.you seem to put him in high esteem and think so low about your self and its obviously not doing you any good,I would write it all down on paper and then burn it,imagine that you are cutting the cord that attaches you both,because as I see it you are coming across as a person who thinks deeply-(that's not a bad thing}THIS PERSON REALY DOES NOT DESERVE YOUR LOVE,so cut the tie ,think love to your soul and move forward,he might not like you doing that,because I am sure if he whistled,you would run,but don't your worth more than that,and if some one asked you to write a list on how some one should love you ,you would not have any of what you are experiencing in there.Also all the time you are stuck in some thing unhealthy,you are not allowing any one else to enter your life and show you how to be loved.you will see his weaknesses when you gain your strength back....good luck