Is it time for me to ask her to marry me?

Question

I'm 18 and my gf is 17, we've been dating for 3 years, and we haven't had but like one fight. well it was more like a misunderstanding. but we really love each other so much and i know that we're going to work out. i just think it's time for me to give her a ring to let her know that i mean what i say. i just don't know to get her a promise ring or an engagement ring. i'm on a tight budget so i was thinking about get her something nice but not to pricey.

thanks

Answer 1

Get her something nice but not too pricey. But if you're to ask her make sure it's super romantic. Every girl dreams of this question to be special as ever. (Rose petals leading to a certain spot, etc ,etc)

A beach?

I remember in the winter time I witnessed a marriage proposal at rockafella ice rink in nyc. He got down on one knee in front of everyone. And she said yes, and everyone surrounding the icerink above clapped, it was really beautiful.

Answer 2

Get her a promise ring.  It's a very sweet and thoughtful gesture.  An engagement ring is something she will wear every day for the rest of her life, so you want it to be something really special, and nice, which costs more money than a promise ring.  I'm not saying you have to spend millions on the engagement ring, but you can get a pretty promise ring for under $100.  Leave the engagement ring for later, like when you're really ready to start planning a wedding.  Until then, I'm sure she will be thrilled with a promise ring!  Good luck!!!

Answer 3

Dear Chase.  Marriage is a big responsibility, and a 17 year old girl is not ready for such a commitment.  She is still under the care of her parents, so she cannot consent to marry at that age.  Now, the other things to consider is:  are you both finished with school?  should you not be thinking of college or vocational education?  can you support her?  These are good questions, and I doubt two young ones your age can take this on.  Why not wait a while, and see how you each feel in a few years?  I hope my little opinion helps you, my sweet friend.

Answer 4

As long as you're ready to give away half of everything if s--t hits the fan

Answer 5

you shouldn't, things change so much during your last few years as a teenager and first few years in your 20s. I was with someone for 4 years by the time i was 19, and at the time i wanted him to propose, but after 4 years we just fell out of love. we were too young to be settling down with that one person, and again so much changes you start university, get jobs, move and all these things change a person. once i started uni i became more independent and no longer felt i needed a boyfriend, i wanted to go out with my single friends and just enjoy my time, but when i think back to when i was 18 i never thought i'd want those things and if i did get married i would of been stuck or ended up divorced. just because you don't fight doesnt mean it will work, standing the test of time and overcoming life challenges together (such as big milestones i mentioned before) and still being totally in love. if you're asking if its right, then it really isnt.. true love doesnt work like that..

IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH SOMEONE WHY RUSH? YOU GOT FOREVER!

Answer 6

That's kind of a young age. I mean, you aren't even 21 yet. People I know who got married before they were even 21 ended up divorcing because when you start going out and experiencing the world, your pool of potential mates gets larger and more diverse.. You might find someone you go better with. College also does the same thing. Honestly, you don't want to miss out many other experiences that you could have later like living alone in your own new apartment that you picked out all by yourself (no compromises), taking off for a weekend without having to think of anyone else or worrying about anyone else, meeting and dating new people who will introduce you to new ideas, places, and skills, etc... The truth is, you are so young yet, and you will do so much changing throughout your life. People you meet along the way will change you in ways you never imagined. This is not to say that this person will not be perfect for you later on though. You might go off and experience things, and decide later on that this person you are with is THE person that you are perfect with. But think of this, if you are together forever and got together at such an early age, what more is there going to be to talk about and share later on. Its nice to have your own memories to share with someone. If it is meant to be, then it will be, if its not, then you won't end up missing out on life.  

Answer 7

I think you can lead a full and satisfying relationship without getting married. Why rush into it? Marriage doesn't make things better. Just love each other with out it.

Answer 8

Get her a commitment ring, that way you are together in a more official way but a ring like this will not cost the earth.

You can pick any stone you want for her, her birthstone is a good idea, and then say something wonderful to her when you present it to her.

Tell her you want to be together for ever and that in a year or two you want to be engaged.

That way you can commit without spending too much money that you dont have on a ring and you can promise each other your devotion and loyalty.

Answer 9

Uh, If you were 30 and dating for several years, it'd be time to ask her to marry you. You should be more worried about college than marriage.