Is it too bad to have venus in scorpio??

Question

i am a sagittarius born on 17th dec 1988, 10:45 am

rising sign- aquarius

moon- aries

venus in scorpio

mars in aries

well i have heard that its bad to have a venus in scorpio.. what can i do to balance it out. also what kind of a person would be able to adjust with me??

Answer 1

With Venus in Scorpio your needs in love and in your intimate relationships (Venus) are intensity, depth, catharsis, power, personal growth, and transformation (Scorpio), but you have difficulty being an equal or sharing power with intimates. You know how you to use your intense relationships to further your own ends and to get what you want. Thus you may frequently change and refine your relationships, but also discard them when they no longer serve your purpose. You love to get deep under the surface of things and explore the mysterious and the unknown. You can be manipulative, but mask your selfishness with an outwardly friendly manner. Your love life, and intimate relationships are often an arena in which power, control and manipulation are played out. Your karma in this life is tied with self-will and love. In general, your personal values and your conception of love need to evolve and be transformed.You're extremely magnetic to the opposite s*x and very passionate, yet may be inhibited as well. If true, don't you be taken in by your intense sexuality: this persona may be covering up unconscious elements in your psyche you have yet to deal with. You feel a need to control your intimate partners, and have difficulty relating to them on an equal level. When someone gets close to you, you can become fearful of compromise and cooperation because they entail an element of letting go of the control with which you feel you need to protect yourself. Therapy, particularly a body-oriented kind, would be ideal to help you become more conscious of these childhood patterns. Once aware and independent of them, your self-work can release you to be a guiding light to others.

Someone who can balance you out, I would say another water sign. Try not to be too possesive and jealous. Control that green monster.

Answer 2

I think it's pretty bad cause I have Venus in Scorpio too and I've never been in a relationship.  >=[

I heard that if you have Venus in Scorpio you tend to be obsessive and I think you can scare guys away from that.

Answer 3

No, it is not bad, I have Venus and Mras ib Pisces in 8 house..

Answer 4

noo its good, doesnt make you fake, you either like someone or you don't and don't mind telling them that either . . . venus in scorpio make good lovers because scorpios are all about loyalty and committment, so give that in a relationship, but expect it back too . . . superficiality and fakeness is a no no . . . you ar very intense . . .

Answer 5

I have it too. No biggie. It helps if you're with a partner who can take love as seriously as you.

Answer 6

Well, every planet have negative and positive sides..

Just IGNORE what ppl said about it is bad..

It is bad because you wont tell everything/anything to ur lover.. u just cant tell or dont want to tell ur lover..

Good side is that you are very very good loyal to your lover as long he/she dont mind if you cant tell him/her everything.. You are bad-@$$ on bed.. wild s*x life lol..

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I have venus in gemini.. A lot of people said that is very very bad..

Like I said.. Every planet and signs have negative and positive sides..

Just ignore what they said to you..

If ur lover cant stand it if you cant tell him/her something.. Then he/she isnt ur true love.. True love is all about patience. =)

oh btw, if u want to know more about venus in scorpio.. there u go!

Venus in Scorpio



Venus in Scorpio people attract others with their intensity and willingness to commit. They have a strong and concentrated manner which suggests their feelings run deep. Their actions in love tend to promise deep commitment and sexual pleasure, even if they are not telling you this directly. Their appeal lies in their focus on you, and their dedication. Venus in Scorpio seems fearless when it comes to intimacy. Potential lovers get the feeling that Venus in Scorpio will never stray, that they are intensely loyal to the one they love. They possess you, and somehow make it seem attractive to be possessed.  

Venus in Scorpio men and women give you their complete attention. These people are very focused on their partners. Depending on your personality, you may find this unnerving or entirely flattering. They have a strong need to control their partner, although this won't be immediately apparent, and they may not ever admit to this. Their body-and-soul love and commitment can be so intense that it eclipses fun and makes loving them a very heavy experience. Their emotion and intensity may seem overdone to those looking for a more lighthearted relationship. These people take things to extremes, and can be very provocative. Although they want to explore all of your nooks and crannies, they won't always be forthcoming with their own. When you've upset these lovers, you'll know it. Depending on the moment, Venus in Scorpio will shoot you one of the most piercing glares around, or totally blow up. Whichever style they choose, a slighted Scorpio lover is not a pretty sight. These people can be jealous of all of your attachments, but few will admit it. They're not afraid of being underhanded in matters of the heart, and they are experts at cutting through all the fluff and seeing you for what you are. Still, you may find their conclusions about you seem skewed and mistrustful.

Pleasing Venus in Scorpio involves demonstrating your complete commitment and loyalty to them. Appreciate their guts when it comes to love and intimacy -- they're proud of their courage in these matters. If you can, and they're deserving, relinquish some of the control in the relationship. Let them feel they own you, without taking it to extremes. Remember, though, that some Venus in Scorpio lovers can and will take advantage of you on a subtle level, if only to keep you all to themselves. Let them have their secrets and their silences.

Answer 7

Not at all. Early astrologers considered this Venus to be the most powerful and the best possible placement. It's a powerful placement for Venus, and misunderstood. There's an excellent article about this placement in the last edition of The Mountain Astrologer.

Answer 8

Someone good for you would be a very intense person, kinda serious, maybe into psychology and how people are and all that stuff.  A very fearless person.