Is it too early to ask her out if I've only known her for a week?

Question

In July my girlfriend broke my heart and I've been pretty depressed ever since, but a week ago I met this amazing girl at school and she makes me happy again and feel good about myself. And we have so much in common, my parents are divorced and so are hers and so she can really relate to how I feel, and we have the same taste in music, and we both love to read, it's like we're meant for eachother. So yeah I really like her and she seems to like me back but I'm not sure..

Should I ask her out even though it's only been a week since we've met? I don't want to rush things, but I definitely do not want to wait and let someone else take her....

Answer 1

Definately!  Ask her out.  You really don't want to wait too long, because someone might steal her away.  Also, it sounds like she just might be waiting for you to make your move.  Just take things slow, and don't assume you were meant for each other so soon.  Maybe you are, but use your dates with her to figure it out.  Also take things slow (casual dates) because it sounds like you may be rebounding from your last girlfriend.  But don't let that stop you from asking her out.  Go for it!

Answer 2

Be a man and ask her out!!!

Answer 3

there really is no such thing as waiting and letting someone else take her.. See the key here is if she likes you, she's not going anywhere, unless Brad Pitt walks up and asks for her hand in marriage.  The only way I see you losing this girl, is if you Chase her away i.e. moving way too fast for her.  From what I see, it seems you're not COMPLETELY sure if she likes you - if you feel there is a chance she'll deny you (which there always is) but you think it's 50/50 then don't yet. Get it in your favor you know like - 75/25 make her a little more intrigued with you. Play some games if you have to - confusion and excitement are the two keys to seduction in the beginning.  Anyone that tells you it's not is crazy, because when you are unsure if someone you like - likes you back it kills you... I'm not saying to lead her on and ditch her, i'm saying be yourself be calm and collected, not desperate and don't jump every time your phone rings and it's her.  Be a little hard to get man, she'll be even more into you. Asking her out should be the EASY part, not the part you're unsure of.. Take it one day at a time and you will be fine.  Email me if you need some advice or anything I like handling these situations.

Edit- If you are talking about asking her out on a date - then def do that now, but I thought you meant ask her to be your Girlfriend. Either way Gluck

Answer 4

Go for it :)

Answer 5

Heck yeah I'd ask her!

Answer 6

noo .ask her out

Answer 7

if she seem to like you go for it (only if u're sure) and don't care what everyone else say (i mean at school)

Answer 8

Get off your BUTT and get on that phone or go where you need to go to ask that girl out!!!

Answer 9

DO it as fast as possible!!!. If you don't you might be put in the FRIEND ZONE and it would be to late for her. It doesn't take long to be put in the FRIEND ZONE

Answer 10

0NE WEEk iS DEfiNATElY T00 eARLY

Answer 11

don't be stupid.  that's too early.  but then again, she might be stupid, and say yes.

Answer 12

i would wait another week or so. if i just met someone and they asked me out i would think theyre trying to get in my pants rather than have an actual relationship with me.