Is it too soon for me to get married??

Question

Me and my Fiance have been together for 2 years and 7 months and we've decided to get married in December. Is that too soon??

Answer 1

Is up to you 2 but in my opinion i dont think its too soon .. good luck !

Answer 2

In my opinion, not at all.  But really, only you can answer that.  I believe cold feet is a sign that the timing (or person) is not right.  You need to have complete confidence that you are making the right decision to marry.

Are you concerned that you are too young?  That you don't know your fiance well enough?  Are there aspects of your relationship that you are not sure about?

Consider why you are concerned about the timing.  In general, 2 1/2 years is not too little time before marrying someone, but like everything else... it all depends on the person.

Best of luck to you both.

Answer 3

just do it. in life not every1 meets the 'one'. if hes your mister right go for it an be happy. dont hold back an share your feelings it sounds silly i know but a lot of marriages brake down due to just that lack of communications good luck an go for it after all you only live once an nobody knows the timescale on that x hope it helps

Answer 4

just do it.

Answer 5

If you need to ask strangers like us, then you have doubts.

If you have doubts, then YES it's too soon.

Do you have doubts?  In this day & age, what's stopping you from just living together defacto?

Don't ask us - TELL us. If you want to marry, marry.

Answer 6

Depending on the type of wedding you want, it might be too soon a date to get everything taken care of.  But, it's not necessarily too soon in your relationship to get married.  Only you and your fiance can answer that.

Answer 7

I know 2 couples who were married within 2 months of meeting - I think you're ok.

Answer 8

No it's not...2 and half years is a perfect time. You also don't want to wait to long coz then it just doesn't feel as exciting, it starts to feel like "just the next step or the right thing to do"

Congrats and good luck!

Answer 9

Being together for 2 years 7 months is quite a long time, Now you both know each other very well, i think thats the right decision, if its the right age to marry.

Answer 10

you really can never tell, it really depends on how well you know each other.

my wife, when were dating for only a year, i asked her to marry me, she refused but i respected her for her reason, she wanted to get to know me better first and the fact that we were still in college. we dated for 7 years, got stable with our jobs until she was the one who proposed to me. we're together for 9 years total and i wonder what difference had it made if we got married when i proposed.

the same answer, we really can never tell. i'm just happy that i found the one i will be with for the rest of my life

so if you both feel that you know each other well enough, why waste time right? all the best to the both of you!

Answer 11

Me and my husband got married seven months after we met. And we only started dating five months before we got married. So that is not too soon at all.

Answer 12

Only you can make that decision. If you feel that a commitment in marriage will complete your relationship and your both ready to be serious about it then it's fine.

Answer 13

No,  it';s not too soon at all.  All that matters is that you are both sure it's what you want.

Answer 14

My fiance and I have been together just over three years and he proposed to me last year right before our 2 year anniversary. If money hadn't of been the issue we would be married already. I think that you are fine and have been together long enough. Good luck and Congrats!

Answer 15

depends how old you are. if your old you don't have much time left so you better get one with it. if your young theres alot of time you will be spending together so you better make the reight decision and it won't hurt to wait. do you feel you really need to validate your feelings with a marrige?

again depends on your age

Answer 16

its not too soon unless you are like under 21

Answer 17

They say to have at least 6 months of being engaged or it will increase your chances of divorce. It doesn't matter how long you are together, you will look at things in a different light once you are engaged. You will re-examine your relationship for the good or the bad.

Answer 18

That totally depends on you love for each other.  I proposed to my wife after two weeks.  That was in May.  We were married in December that year.

That is now approaching 18 years this year, and we are still happily married.