Is it true Cruise Ships are full of Swingers?

Question

I dont want us to get propositioned the entire trip because we're a younger couple... We dont swing. Are there any sort of keys-terms or things we should be aware of to avoid having an awkward question.

If someone asks my boyfriend to "swap" or "swing", he's probably going to swing his fist into their head.

Answer 1

no whoever told you that is stupid

Answer 2

LMAO. You are from the US, aren't you ?

Unless you are on a special theme cruise in the tropics, cruise ships are hardly the big orgy that some people think of it as. Majority of the cruisers will probably need medical aid to sustain that sort of activities. LOL

So regardless how high in the god or godess level you are, sexually related propositions are highly unlikely. I would worry more about over endulgance in the food catogory than the s*x if I were you.

Answer 3

Sail on Disney and I don't think that will happen...

Answer 4

You'll see more older people on cruise ships then young studs like you. No there are no swingers, no there are no big parties with s*x, booze, drugs. Cruise ships are for everyone. They are well run and most people behave. Of course you can dance on the dance floor and flirt, nothing wrong with that. Ans if you are single and meet another single girl/boy and you both want to make out, that's possible too. Just like in any other situation. Go on a cruise, find out what it is all about and do not be surprised if your cruise is a quiet, relaxing trip. Bon voyage.

Answer 5

What you imagine is just not happening.  From what I have heard don't cruise on Carnival.  I have cruised with Celebrity and NCL and it was great, people stick with the people they are cruising with and I had some nice conversations with fellow cruisers.  Like someone else said, the problem is eating too much food!

Answer 6

Generally there arent swingers on cruise ships, the exception wuold be if a swinger society has boked the ship. There are of course a lot of singles on a cruise, but no s*x in public space (there is no guaranti for what drunk people could do of course). A cruise is one of the safest and less harasfree holidays in the world. That is because  

everyone aboard has either paid the cruise fee or is a emploee of the cruise line. No one else get on the ship. And there is a lot of familys cruising with a lot of kids on almost every cruiseship there is.

Johan

Answer 7

i cruise and im not a swinger, never had a problem either

Answer 8

Noooooo....definitely not.  My wife (who I might add is quite the looker, and not just because it's my own opinion) and I were never once asked anything like that at all on any cruise we've been on.

Of course, if you want to avoid that entirely, go on a Disney cruise....doubt Disney'd tolerate a big orgy going on in any of their rooms due to their "family" oriented atmosphere.

Answer 9

Unless you're going on a special charter with exclusively swingers...nope!

You will only get hit on, if you flirt with someone who is looking for some action.  Just act responsibly and maturely, and you won't have any worries.  Of course, I would advise your bf to grow up before going on such a vacation, imo.  He sounds a bit too possessive.

Answer 10

Have been on many, many cruises and we are both not bad looking - we've never had this situation - I've never even detected it going on.

You don't need to worry - your statement that your boyfriend would "swing his fist into someone's head" makes me think you are very young and maybe you should plan some other type of vacation.  :)

Answer 11

No!  Not unless it is a themed cruise.  (There are g*y cruises, etc).  Stick with a cruise line for the mature like Celebrity or Norwegian.  Carnival is known for its wild parties - I would never cruise with them.

Your comment cracks me up -  "We're young enough to be the most physically attractive people on the cruise".  There are plenty of very attractive people who cruise.  On my last cruise one of our tablemates was an actress from England who was very beautiful.  Cruise ships are not full of silver-haired people with walkers.