Is it true that ALL guys who are like 19-21 who date girls that are 17/...?

Question

tend to do one thing with that girl? cause my mom thinks so i got curious one day and asked her what do you think about a 17yrold girl and a 20 yr old guy. AND a 18yr old and 24 yr old she said thats too big of a gap and i even mentioned what if they didnot have any intimacy and had like a basic relationship taking things slowly. then she says no, all guys are like that. so im guessing, she's generalizing that all guys do this (yes i know their are some) but what if they are in love? and etc.

andNO IM NOT THE GIRL I WAS TALKIN ABOUT just incase you were wonderin.

ps. i guess my mom likes to lable what age range you have to be with to be in love wich is bullshit to me.

Answer 1

Its definately not true that every guy who dates a younger girl is after s*x. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 25 and our relationship is based off of us NOT s*x. We tend to generalize that guys in their late teens/early-mid twenties are all about s*x because that's when they're in their sexual prime. s*x is something that guys in their late teens/early-mid twenties definately are into, but you can have a relationship with an older guy without it being centered around s*x.

ps... I also dated an 18 yr old when I was 16; and a 20 yr old when I was 17... People think its odd, but guys my own age annoy and bore me.

Answer 2

actually it does happen quite often and mostly when those 2 age groups get together idk y though. But theres always an exception and it dosent always happen its just more coomon.

Answer 3

Not all of those guys a like that but most are. When I was 17 I used to date older guys and I got played EVERY time. The partner I have now is my age and has never treated me badly and is surprisingly loads more responsible then the older guys.

Answer 4

Well lets see, my boyfriend and I's Age gap falls into that category.  I was 19 and he was 22 when we started to date.  And to be honest, while he wanted s*x, that wasn't all he wanted.   Once you hit 17 and 18, the age gap begins to matter less.  You are considered an adult, and your relationships are mostly not considered taboo anymore.  

Some guys aren't mature enough to want more than that from a girl, while others are...they have gone out and learned from the real world some.

My Boyfriend and I are now 22, and 25 and are still as happy as can be.  Age doesn't always matter.

Answer 5

Parents are like that, but you will come to realize age doesn't matter at all that much once you come out of your teens and early twenties.

Answer 6

Well, yeah most guys that age only think about that ONE thing...lol and it's all most of them want to do...

BUT

There are some guys who are really sincere and are in love and care about more than just the physical stuff. They are few and far in between but they do exist. At that age many are immature.

I don't think the age gap is a deal because 24-year old guys are about the same maturity as the 18-year old girl , most of the time.

I actually think it's perfect because they would be more on the same level at that age if that makes any sense. :)

You can't put an age on love, although most young love is ''puppy love", it's not fair to stereotype everyone like that.

Answer 7

i dont think all of them do but most of them do