Is it true that Gemini's...?

Question

is it true that gemini's keep looking for girls and when they feel they have found the perfect one for them, they are keepers? I understand this does not apply for all gemini relationships. I just notice that my b/f has girls who are after him from before non-serious relationships, but he is after me. Im not special or different, im a down to earth average looking girl who is conservative and shy compared to the nice looking girls he has after him. so why is he only interested in me, he calls me everyday from work, he wants to spend all the time with me and he likes to tease my looks and the way I am and then says thats what he loves about me and a few seconds later he acts as if he is annoyed by me, so when I ignore him and backup for space, he tries to look for me and acts as if nothing happened. im confused because gemini men tend to be flirty and cheats, even tought I know he is a flirt he has never cheated on me (not that I know of, unless behind my back). he admits that he had his f_c_ buddies before our relationship, but he says it was nothing serious and that he feels im compatible to him and that he wants to be with me and not the other girls that are after him. sometimes I get annoyed by him because he wants me to be friends with his best friends as well and be as social and hyper as he is. I feel we do undestand each other in bed, but outside of it its kind of like a weird and dull relationship even thought he says he loves me and I love him too. so my questions are:

why would a gemini men be interested in a virgo woman (when supposely they are not compatible)?

why does a gemini men act boyish, immature and likes to tease when he likes someone?

why do gemini men believe in the one and only for them after so many previous relationships and fooling around?

Answer 1

All of my Gemini friends have very close relationships with Virgos (even if they ended up just being friends).  They are very comfortable with Virgos and have a lot in common.

They don't really get bored of the Virgo they just get bored of not being able to get the Virgo to go along with the things that they want to do (the spontaneity is sometimes missing).  

I think it is a good match!  Just don't pick on them too much...they can take a lot from the "critical" eye of a Virgo but they also need to be accepted by their lover as well.

Good luck!

Me:

Sun: Sadge (with a lot of Virgo and Gemini friends)

Moon: Leo

Ascendant: Gemini

Answer 2

Hello shy, timid, conservative, earth-bound virgo.  I am also a Gemini, so let me offer you a little insight.  I currently hold a seven-year relationship with an earth-bound sign.  It is NOT going to be easy.  You are not compatible in astrology terms.  This will take hard-work, dedication, and persistence.  You said he has other girls after him, don't think of yourself as another girl. Believe that you are better than that, and so will he.  Relate to our Gemini motto:  I think therefore I am.

Why be childish and immature to show attraction?  Forgive the Gems, sometimes we feel like Peter Pan.  Eternal youth keeps up forever young.  It makes it great with children and fun parents later in life.  It also makes us exciting lovers and fascinating companions.  Hang around and wait for him to "blow your mind."  Some selfless act strictly for your benefit that will just leave you speechless.  Wait for it.  

Why fool around?  Boredom!  It is a cardinal sin.  Do not fall into a routine!  We are vivacious, curious creatures that will pretty much try anything once.  With the exception of anything illegal or fatal.  Remember a Gemini values freedom above all else.  We have to be absolutely certain that the risk is worth the reward.  We don't give up our freedoms lightly.  So if he is trying to attach himself to you, you must have something pretty special.  Otherwise, trust me, he wouldn't even be wasting his time.

So if you don't know what he sees in you.  It might be what he doesn't see, which is whatever those other girls had that made him just want to fool around for awhile and leave.  You don't have to conform to his wild ways, just let yourself go.    If you fear the unknown and just can't bring yourself to trust him and give him a fair chance with you, this has all been a waste of your time.  If you trust him enough to jump with both feet, get ready for a wild ride.  There is a permanent part to every Gemini, if you find it.  You have it for life.  

Answer 3

Use caution when it comes to the Gemini male.  The best advice I can give you is to not listen to what he says, but pay attention to what he DOES.  Actions speak louder than words, and Gemini males do tend to be a little bit inconsistent at best.  Why is he interested in you? Because you're so different from him.  I mean this in a good way of course, because as I've said before Virgo people are some of the best! One of the things you have to remember too is that Gemini males like to get a rise out of you. Telling you about all the girls that are after him is a way to wake you up and get you to take notice. He likes attention, which is why he will push you a little and then when you back off and run away he panics and comes to find you.  Your best approach is to keep your own self and not fall over every single word he says.  Virgos like someone who is reliable, dependable, steady, and consistent.  I'm afraid your Gemini may not come through in those departments, but time will tell, and you will know whether or not you can trust him by what he does, not by what he says. Hope this helps.  Whatever you do, stand your ground and keep your sense of who you are and what you will and will not tolerate. Always hold him accountable. No matter what his sign, if he's worth a d**n he will respect your boundaries and not cross them. Good luck to you!

Answer 4

A gemini will stay around till he is bored.  Judging by your dull ranting on this post, you have two months left with him..... uhggg.

Answer 5

Hmmmm sounds like he's in love.....you need to stop doubting yourself (but that's the virgoen nature).

and just b/c he fooled around, doesn't believe he doesn't believe in the one and only.....are you kidding me??  I have met plenty of individuals who still think that way.  Do you tink someone who has been frigid is more likely to believe in that idea or something??? If so, you will find that you have been misinformed.