Is it true that girls having big b*****s are often visually molested in our society?

Question

How would they feel when someone continuously staring at them. How far is this morally offensive? What can they do get rid of this social stigma?

Answer 1

I think those men who stare are thirsty and thinking of mama.

Answer 2

No , people stare at anything that is incredibly large, its natural.

Answer 3

i don't think so

if they have they must cover it fully

even the cleavage must not be seen

then only society will respect them

Answer 4

They could put em away. Not all men want to see **** 24/7 you know

Answer 5

Visually molested?

Oh you mean looked at because they have a noticable physical feature? Kinda like the guy with the big birthmark, the woman missing a leg, the person with the really blue eyes, that guy with a huge nose, That chick with really long hair, the fat person, the person with a big butt, the really short person, the really tall person, the person who kind of almost looks like someone you know but then doesn't when you look closer, etc etc etc?

Seriously, this stuff is getting silly. We are one step away from being accused of "mental rape" if we think about having s*x with someone.

Answer 6

Well, I my self am a little lacking in that area, but I have a friend with huge b***s that's very often ogled at. She's also often mistaken for someone much older than she actually is. She completely hates it, but deals. I don't think it bothers her so much anymore.

Answer 7

The true point is that, once we have people filled with hate pretending to be our saviours, they exploit people’s fears to gain prominence and status

And to hide their activities they come up with things like ‘Political Correctness’

As women’s weakness’ revolves around (fear, shame, guilt, blame etc) it is easy to exploit women by showing us how they are going to stop us feeling shame, and their big idea of how to do this is to make laws that inhibits others natural inclinations

Now once you start down this road then what is the next thing?

If they have victory in this area, it wont be long before there is restrictions on the wearing of types of clothes by women

Of course WE are not meant to question this, we are to be good little feminist and say YES, bow & nod and say YES, YES, YES!

Answer 8

I have naturally large b*****s and I'm secure enough in myself that this kind of thing doesn't send me over the edge. Visually molested? That's an interesting term. I never feel "visually molested" when a man looks at my chest.

I've noticed that this is only really an issue when women wear things that are too revealing. It's not morally offensive. And, it's usually men who are ignorant and classless. I chalk it up to not knowing any better.

Answer 9

Jessie K: I think Amitava is an Indian BOYS name.  But, aside from that, I agree with you.  Staring isn't a crime.  Maybe it annoys some people, but so do a lot of things.  With things like that we just need to get over it.  And besides: like you said, I think many girls just feel flattered when guys do this.

Answer 10

Only if they put them out there...I have big b***s and I don't care if people look..I just roll my eyes if their like oogling them or just move on..what ever...your gonna get what you put out..if their covered I have never really had a problem.

Answer 11

Wear a Shirt that covers them.

Women act all appalled when you look, but they want you to look.

b*****s are just fat with nipples on them, if men didnt like them they would just be a huge hassle for women.

We make b***s what they are, without us b***s are no fun

Answer 12

I have big b*****s, and really, when men look, it's just looking. Why should it offend me? I check out attractive men, it is just humans being human.

Answer 13

until westerners came to india all women were not wearing a blouse.

i doubt a saree head peace even.

with the victorian concepts BRA and blouse were introduced.

when some thing is covered in an attractive manner it pulls the attention of westerners easterners or any one.

i can remember old timers not wearing a blouse where we never felt attractive.

not that big b***s attract,

all cute .nice looking stiff b***s attract.

girls when they r young they like it but after mid ages do not care.

Answer 14

this is bordering on the 'everyone's a victim' scenario. Sure our physical appearance causes us to deal with social stigma at times.  Just exactly like anyone who's blonde, has a big nose, is a different colour form their peers, has less money than their peers, or more money, or is prettier, or uglier, or skinnier, or fatter, or has a stutter, or a different accent, or sees life in a different way to most others - so how do we deal with it?  Grow some thick skin, wear appropriate clothing and put it in the context of: there are real disabilities in life, that create a real challenge in our pursuit of happiness, and big b***s aren't one of them.

Answer 15

Yeah probably.  I wouldn't want my b*****s stared at.   How can they get rid of this social stigma?  Uhm cover them up?  I mean when they are bouncing they could cause car accidents.

Other than that, they could uncover them.  After awhile,  people get used to em.

Answer 16

*sigh*

No. I have big b***s, it's never bothered me if someone looks at them. I don't get the prudishness really, half the world has one set of genitals and the other has a different set... plus, some of us happened to get big chests... who gives a d**n, really? Goodness.

If you don't want people to check out your chest, by all means, wear a sweater at all times and slap yourself if you buy a lowcut dress or shirt. Because I promise that if you wear a chest-baring outfit and complain that people are looking at your chest, someone will be moved to call you a moron and instruct you to leave the party.

Hey, get a breast reduction, that way you can eliminate the problem all together.

How sensitive can people get? Jeez

Answer 17

Get some Reading Glasses. You will be perceived as a Bookworm with an intellect. Even if you are not. It will make you appear more intellectual. And take the focus off your b*****s. Men are visually stimulated, thats how we are hard wired. Thats life you will have to accept reality and stop being offended at the attention. Many Women complain when they are ignored. How is this a problem?

You are lucky. I know of a Woman whose face was seriously scarred from Burns. And it distracted from the wonderful person who she was. You are fortunate if you are whole.

Answer 18

b*****s aren't a social stigma, they're just a part of anatomy. The problem comes from people who aren't taught or don't have any manners in society.  It's very normal for young men to look at b*****s, they're a sign of fertility. It's in the genes, and we wouldn't be here if it weren't for horny young men.   If a girl has big b*****s, she can expect that boys will look at them. If she really truly wants to be ignored, she can wear the type of bulky, flowing clothing that women wear in the middle east. However, I don't think that's what most girls want. Girls like being noticed, they just don't want to be ogled. Teaching girls to be tough is good policy:    I suggest a simple  "They don't talk".  and a glare is a good start.

Answer 19

Visually molested. Pathetic. Well that's a new one, flatchest. I feel great when guys stare at me, and if you had any b***s, and didn't like it, where a baggy shirt, stupid.

There is no stigma, there's just your jealousy, because you can't get any.

Oh, and Viking you are so right! Except- not at all.