Is it true you meet someone when you are not looking for?

Question

I wonder how true it is. I have been looking for someone special, but haven't seen any potential so far, and don't know where to look anymore. People sometimes advice things like above. But to me, you want him/her because you want, and what's wrong with wanting one. Any advice or personal experience appreciated.

Answer 1

I would say that sometimes that is true, but sometimes you have to step out of the box to meet someone.

Where are you looking?  Most people I know nowadays meet people on Dating Sites.  I think people are tired like you are.  They are tired of sitting around waiting for someone.   On a dating site, you can specify exactly what you are looking for in someone.  You will find the right person.

I will provide the link below to the site my friends met their boyfriends on.  It doesn't cost anything to set up a profile if you want to check it out.

There is nothing wrong with wanting someone.  You just have to go find them.  There are millions of people like you in this world.  Everyone deserves someone.  

Answer 2

it is definitely true.

for the longest time i so wanted to find "the one" so i searched and searched and i literally can say i have dated over 40 guys and all of them went nowhere. i wanted love so badly that i would even trick myself into thinking i was even though it wasn't ever true love. no, granted, i am very young, my life experiences are that of someone older.

so during this summer i decided to take time to focus on my priorities such as schooling and friends and relationships became the last thing on my mind.

what do you know... i ended up meeting my other half.

we have only been together for a month but i can tell you that he is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. on top of that, everything just happened on its own, it wasn't forced and i believe that's why its worked out so well.

what you should do is take some "me" time. if there is one lesson i have learned its that you cant love another till you love yourself. so do me a favor and have fun for the time being. you have plenty of time left to find love, and im sure while your out there focussing on your goals and enjoying time with friends and family... youll meet him.

searching will only lead you into the wrong arms.

remember: the greatest treasures were stumbled upon, not seeked.

good luck to you

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Answer 3

YES it's true...at one point in my life i was done looking for that special someone you know.. "the one" i kept trying and looking and  i was just getting sick of it... so one day on myspace i wrote a blog about it and this guy gave me some advice... he said just wait... so i decided whats the harm in doing that so i did and a couple weeks later i met a guy and now i'm about to get married to him... so yes you do meet someone when you least expect it and arent looking for them... its like when you misplace an object and cant find it anywhere no matter how hard you look and when you stop looking for it... you find it.