Is it unhealthy to gain a sense of confidence from being a exotic dancer?

Question

I work at an exotic dancing club and ever since i started ive noticed that my confidence levels have boostd up. I don't feel shy like i used to before i started doing this.

Answer 1

its great! just maintain ur self respect, dont just go letting urself loose on the guys, make them keep wanting to come back for what they cant have!

Answer 2

No. You are falling in love with your own body. Your feeling empowered by the men lusting after you.

Answer 3

Hmmm........ tricky......

Of course you're going to feel more confident in that you're noticing a lot more male eyes on you (and that you're conning them into forking over their life savings just for something as simple as taking your clothes off), but you shouldn't be confident in yourself because all you're giving them is a pretty picture.  You should be wanting to present yourself as a human being, not a nice rack. (The rack HELPS, but you need to be more than that... *lol*)

Now that you're feeling more confident about yourself, could now be the opportunity for you to pursue your REAL goal/career?

Answer 4

if you can shake your money maker on stage in front of a bunch of drunk guys....then I would think you would have a high esteem level.

Answer 5

Of course you dont feel shy - you've got a bunch of horny men drooling over your goodies!!! It'll only harm your confidence if you strip in public.

Answer 6

It doesn't  matter what people think. If it makes you happy and it doesn't hurt anyone then it's fine with me.

Answer 7

there is no problem with elevating your self esteem and confidence.

Answer 8

i guess if thats what you needed to boost your confidence...

Answer 9

It's great that what you do  has increased your  self-confidence.  Don't listen to anyone who tries to diss it.  

I once dated an exotic dancer who gave me some great insight— she told me that being proud of her body and knowing that she had control over a large group of guys made her feel very empowered.  She also told me it was c**p that some people said she was being exploited.  She said if anyone was being exploited it was the guys.

Tom W