Is it unusual to have a fetish???

Question

I always loved to see beutiful women in latex or vinyl lingerie...for me, it's a huge turn on! I'm not into the chains and bondage or that type of thing, I just think that type of lingerie on a woman is VERYsexy. My wife is not really into that kind of stuff and I've really never asked her to wear anything like that in fear that she would think I'm totally nuts! Is it unusual for a guy to have a fetish like this or do most men have similar fantasies and just don't say anything?

Answer 1

Not all guys have fetishes but it's very common.  Now finding a woman with a fetish is alot harder but hey, you gotta keep trying! My fetish is pantyhose.  OK maybe not a "fetish" per se but more like a strong like for.

Answer 2

yes

Answer 3

It is every man's fantasy.

There is nothing wrong in your liking.

Your wife is also a woman. Why can't you ask her.

It is your and her's private life.

Try asking her.

Don't feel bad man. Some women do not understand the importance of s*x.

Answer 4

i have it... but i dont really mind, few days ago i decided to get rid of it but i gave up on trying to get rid of it the next day. its pretty normal. some men dont ever talk about it though,

Answer 5

hey i got a chicken suit !

Answer 6

A fetish usually is so extreme that is impairs your ability to function without that.  A guy with a foot fetish, for example, likely only gets aroused when he's in contact with a foot.  Nothing else will do it for him.

It sounds like you just think latex and vinyl lingerie are s**y.  That's not a fetish...it's a preference.  I know a guy who really gets turned on by the halter top type blouses.  He thinks they're s**y.  

Have a non-threatening talk with your wife.  Ask her what she finds s**y in clothing for women and for men...then tell her what you find s**y.  Make it just a conversation.  You can even joke and say, I know wearing vinyl lingerie would probably be hot and uncomfortable, but then I'd make sure you didn't have it on very long.  

Most women KNOW that men have specific turn ons.  As long as you put it into the context of you want HER to be that turn on, you should be just fine.  Just see where it goes....