Is it usual for married american women tennis players to call married men to play tennis?

Question

(The woman in question has a husband that plays tennis and she is the one that call other men (married with non tennis players), not her husband.

Answer 1

Assuming this is a straight question, and no alterior motives are inferred... there is no problem.

Most of my married girl friends that have husbands that do play, don't play well wtih them, like in mixed doubles.  Im single, and I play with a married male partner.  Most of us that play together are fairly long-term friends, male and female.  We play 3-5 days a week in various combinations of singles, doubles, mixed doubles.

Answer 2

should ask the husband to go with her as well

Answer 3

Well it al depends on how she acts around these other men. Maybe she just wants a wider variety of opponents? This could greatly enhance your game so give her the benefit of the doubt and ask HER about it, not us because she should have instilled a bit more faith in yourself and the husband, if he is not the same pereson?

Answer 4

From personal experience, my husband and I do not play well together on the same side of the court.  Maybe that's the dilemma she has.  If she really likes mixed doubles, she should play against her hubby with another guy as her partner. ...that way, her intentions wont be misinterpreted.  Most of the time it is innocent....just watch how she interacts with the guys she plays with til you're satisfied that no funny business is going on.

Answer 5

If she is serious about tennis and trying to improve her game she probably wants to a) play men, and b) play someone other than her husband.  When you are very close to someone and play them a lot you do get familiar with their game and they with yours and your improvement tends to stagnate.

I guess she could take her husband with her...or suggest the other player brings his wife, but it sounds to me that its probably very innocent.