Is it weird for your step mom's ex-huband to go on vacations with you?

Question

I have a step mom who divorced her previous husband because he was g*y. They had 3 kids. My dad and her had a wedding and he came....is that normal? He also comes with us on vacations....and during holidays comes with us to visit HER RELATIVES and MY RELATIVES. I'm a 17 year old kid and this has been happening for like 5 years. Am i just paranoid or what?

I would think it would be weird to be their kid because if i saw my dad still hanging out with my mom i would think that they are still somewhat together.

Answer 1

Obviously he still likes your mom and is using you to get to her :-)

Answer 2

ok its unusual, but i think its pretty cool that they have a good relationship and all get on- and you know they probably do it for the kids. Parents nearly always put their kids first which is something you dont realise until you are older. Its possible for a man and woman to be friends after a relationnship, especially if they were good friends during it. It doesnt mean they are still in love it just means they get on and want to have a harmonious relationship, most likely (sorry to repeat) for the sake of the kids.

Answer 3

My mom goes on vacations with my last step mom sometimes.  My dad is on his 3rd marriage and my mom and wife 2 hang out a lot so I'm not gonna judge.

Answer 4

No. You're being sensible and resist being drawn into that bizarro world

Answer 5

i think its kinda okay since hes g*y...sorda a will and grace type thing.

Answer 6

yeah when I saw the question I thought, that's pretty weird. Although it's actually alot less weird if the guy is definately g*y because you know there is nothing going on between them apart from friendship. There are so many different types of families, there aren't really any rules!

Answer 7

yes is weird

Answer 8

It sounds a little weird when you read about it, but everyone else is okay with it so it must be okay. All teenagers are paranoid when it comes to their parents.