Is it weird that I will never care about a relationship?

Question

I am turning 14 Sunday and starting high school Monday I don't care about a relationship I just want to fool around with boys just like my sister she is 23 she fools around with men everyday she's never been in a relationship,When I enter high school I just want to fool around with boys and forget about stupid relationships they are lame.

Answer 1

That's not very smart, Liss.  You're in line for every disease you can name.  Do you want the reputation that goes along with this attitude?

Instead, why don't you wait until someone really catches your eye?  Someone you want to be with, hang with, stay up all night talking with, have babies with and grow old together.  s*x without affection is useless and dangerous.  s*x with the right person can be the most repeatable slice of heaven on earth.  Save yourself for that.  

TX Mom

Answer 2

That's not a great idea. And by the way, from your questions, I get the impression that your parents went WRONG some where. Like maybe they weren't there for you or something-like they didn't do their job of teaching you well... for you to be saying you wanna be like PARIS HILTON of all people and wanna sleep around and stuff like that... Miley Cyrus herself seems to be the lesser of two evils in that other question you asked.

Sorry, i don't mean to offend, but that's the impression I get. :(

Answer 3

Er...that's a little weird.  I don't think it's the best decision. Are you sure you want to do that?

Answer 4

nope not weird at all, i'm the same way. this started like 3 months ago when i lost my virginity to a guy that i wasn't even dating. i just have casual s*x. i hate being tied down

good luck

Answer 5

well i think the only thing left to do is to pick a name for the kid(s).

Answer 6

your sister is an adult and can do what she wants but fooling around with high school boys is NOT a good idea.  do you want to be known as a s**t for four years?? i hope not. good luck

Answer 7

By fool around I hope you don't mean s*x.

You'll definately regret it later in life.

Answer 8

That's horrible. Not only will you be hurting yourself, but you'll also be hurting the guys that actually want a relationship. If your really going to be like that then please do my gender a favor, and become a Nun.

Answer 9

No, don't do that, seriously. Relationships are important not the s*x part. I imagine it probably won't be as good, as it would be with the person you love or marry. And I imagine in the future it would cause a ton of problems for you emotionally, by then you might want to have a real relationship, but might find that it feels strange or you can't develop the same feelings as the other person as for you. Plus without any kind of relationship, whether love friendship whatever, life is just a void, and it wouldn't really have any happiness or meaning to it.

Answer 10

I think its weird you think you can predict the future.