My parents divorced when I was 2. My mother remarried to my stepfather when I was 9, and then died a year later. After that, I lived with my stepfather and his new wife until I left home at 17 for college. We haven't had much of a relationship since then, and only started speaking again a few years ago. We are on good terms now, but not exactly close. I still have my biological father's last name. I won't bother going into detail here, but I want nothing to do with him and am tired of people making assumptions based on our shared name. I mean, I don't even know him. Would it be weird to ask my step-parents if I could take their name instead? I know it shouldn't be a big deal, but part of me worries they might be weirded out. What do you think? Any input would be appreciated.
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