Is it weird to be attracted to a teacher/instructor

Question

Eh, I feel sort of silly for asking this...But have you ever had feelings towards an older mentor? Like a teacher, boss, or instructor? When I say old, I mean about 10 years older than yourself.

Lately I have, but it's not like an attraction where I think they're "hot" or want a relationship.

I just respect them a lot and feel really happy when I get noticed for doing something right. And I enjoy talking to him, ect.

Is that odd?

Answer 1

No, I don't see that as odd at all. You treat them like a friend and you appreciate someone noticing your achievements. I actually wouldn't even call that an "attraction," just well-placed trust and respect.

Answer 2

I think you feel admiration for him...just don't act on it. That would be a big mistake. We have a tendency to admire someone who is smart and helpful.

Answer 3

nope not at all

Answer 4

That's really messed up!

Answer 5

lol i used to have some hot chick 23 year old teacher in 5th grade. i thought she was hot as h**l haha. i was like 9 or 10

Answer 6

heh.. i'm glad you posted this because i thought i was the only one.

once we had a sub and he was totally MY type.. except he was way older than me. he was intelligent , taught well and made jokes here and there. and his look was pretty nice too.. glasses, clean cut clothing. gosh, you don't find boys like this in high school.

it's not odd , because you're not the only one :)

Answer 7

no not that much ^__^

Answer 8

Not odd at all, I had this thing for my Biology teacher.   She was hot!

But she didn't give me the time of day.   I was also attracted to lots of older women though.

Answer 9

No not at all, alot of people feel the same way. When I was in 3rd grade I had a crush on a subsitute who was like 25years old lol. And in7th grade I had a crush on my science teacher who was engaged. Hey you can't help it, but it makes the class more interesting doesn't it? Makes the class easier too. It's not odd at all. :)

Answer 10

Haha it's normal :) just don't ask him out or anything or tell him that you like him because he could get fired and could also ruin your relationship between teacher and student.

Answer 11

Nope I had a crush on my history teacher. He was young, just a couple of years out of college and my god was he cute!! He ran track, loved the same movies I did, I thought I was going to marry him. LOL, now that's wierd. YOu sound normal!!

Answer 12

no I had crushes on my 6th grade teacher, my 7th grade teacher and that was about all, Oh And my ninth grade teacher was the sexiest or mmaybe I was just really horny at that age