Is it weird to be thinking of marrying my gf?

Question

Ive been dating my gf for 3 months now and I have been having dreams about marrying her and I have thought about it a couple of times too. I dont plan to marry her, atleast not any time soon cause we are both 18. I havent told her cause I dont want her to think its weird or anything cause I personally do. But what do you guys/girls think?

Answer 1

It definitely isn't weird to want to marry your gf, that's why you go with her. Ask her if she has ever had a dream where she & you were married? If you lead her on you can hurt her feelings, & that would cruel & cold of you. It's great that you both are 18, but how responsible are YOU? she'll expect a lot out of you. Most Native American tribes wont even think about

marrage unless he knew for sure he could support her,

financualy,mentaly,spiritualy, physically, & emotionally, can YOU do this? If not, then it would be best for both of you to

wait.

Answer 2

Is she your first girlfriend or your first love? If so, this is not at all uncommon. It's not weird, but telling her might scare her. Don't marry too young, stick it out for a least a year before you a make a decision.

Answer 3

just wait awhile and if she is the one for you, you will know and when the time is right you will want to marry her and propose.

Answer 4

lol slow it down a bit bro. Nobody likes a clinger...youre still in the "honeymoon phase." give it about a year or two, youll get sick of each other soon enough (in a good way that is).

Answer 5

just wait a while i know 2 people who have been dating each other since they were 17 and 1/2 now they r both 24 they r  going 2 be engaged soon

Answer 6

nope. fine

Answer 7

It would be weird, if you DIDN'T think about it. Dating is the process we use to find our mate. Just wait until you've been dating much longer than 3 months, and are a little older than 18 =]

Answer 8

if you can see spending the rest of your life with her and you really  have strong feelings of love for her then why not tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way it is the only way to know for sure

Answer 9

My husband proposed to me when he was 17. I was 19. We got married this past April at 18 and 20 years of age! And we are happily married. My advice is just make sure you know her well enough to ask her to be your wife. Sometimes people are really good at hiding their true character and when you actually get to know them is after you are married and then its kinda to late unless you want to go with a divorce which I don't suggest.  We knew each other for about 15 months before he proposed and then we waited another 12 months before we got married, so trust me, we knew each other quite well by then. Do you know her well enough to know if she is serious about your relationship? Find that out! Good luck!

Answer 10

I dont think its weird that you think about it, but dont tell her yet....

Answer 11

Well, I met my fiance' when I was 17. By 18 I started dreaming of marrying him & we even talked about it. We were smart enough to wait. We will of been together for six years when we get married and I'll be 23. I consider myself blessed for finding him so young.

Answer 12

Not weird, but you're right not to tell her quite yet. 3 months is too soon to bring up marriage when you'd never even been in a relationship before.

Answer 13

yeah,, dont tell her.

Answer 14

yea, dont tell her

Answer 15

If you don't plan on marrying her...then why are you with her?

Answer 16

If you feel strongly, get it off of your chest and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same way, so what. You tried, right? And that means you are just not meant to be.Good luck, but do what your heart tells you!