Is it worth contacting them?

Question

Ok, i used to have loads of friends a couple of years ago. Life got hard and I lost contact with them. A few have said mean things behind my back at school. I do not have many friends now. Should I try being friends with them again? They are on myspace. should I add them as friends?

Answer 1

Move forward not back words. Best wishes! No.

Answer 2

No.

You will fare much, much better if you move forwards and find new friends. I realise that you feel you don't have many friends now, but I don't think the answer is to revisit the past. It really is not worth befriending people again who are reminders of a hard time in your life, and particularly when you know that they have said mean things behind your back about you. You don't need friends like that!!

Good on you for putting the past behind you - if you make a point of taking up new interests and joining in with group activities you will soon make new friends who can't hold the past over you.

Best Wishes.

Answer 3

No, there must have been a reason you lost contact with them...if you think it over you'll remember and you probably will change your mind about trying to rekindle your relationships.