Is it worth it to keep these friends or should i just tell them to eff off?

Question

My friends and I planned to take our senior pictures today with a good friend's dad. I got ready all day. In the morning my "friends" sent me a text message asking what i was doing today.

I asked why

they said because they wanted to come to my house

(I thought it was rude that they just invited themselves)

I said, what about the pictures

she said: oh they got cancelled

me: why didn't i hear about it earlier

her: i sent a comment on myspace

whatever, I asked her if she wanted to go to the mall but she said she was on her way over to our friends house.

how rude

what do you think

Answer 1

I mean if you feel there good friends and you feel like they can be trusted than why get rid of them. It sounds like you were just upset at the fact that they invited themselves to your house and because you took the time to get ready and your plans to take pictures got canceled. I mean what you can do is just be straight up with them and say,'' you guys need to stop inviting yourself 's to my house i don't like that". Just be real with them and tell them the truth. There's no need for you to be rude not unless they get dumb with you than get crazy girl lol.. na but just be honest with them and tell them how it is. If there real friends they'll still be there after you tell them the truth for reals.. I hope i helped out..  

Answer 2

I wouldn't just kill the friendship entirely but I'd put them in check so they won't keep doing that c**p again.

Answer 3

idk

u might be overreacting

Answer 4

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Answer 5

wow, those don't sound like friends. Just start finding new people and if they ask what's up, you tell them that you decided you need people who can keep their promises and are loyal, just, friends. That should show 'em who's boss! (lol)

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Answer 6

i think when you get to schoool you should look around for people who have always been nice to you and hang out with them

Answer 7

my sister said : OMG my friends did the same thing almost. it really got me mad, so I told them off abit and they got mad at me 4 like a day or 2.  then we just 4 got about it and they never did it again

Answer 8

I've had this done to me before and i said yes but them people arent my friends anymore ive seen through them and they dont like me that much so just stay close to the people that you know are nice and you think that theyre really good friends, thats what ive done and its helped me a bit.

Answer 9

You dont like em so if you think you can get other friends without being a loner you should dump em

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Answer 10

That is pretty rude.

But you have to consider; how long have you known these friends?

If it was a long time, then I think you should give them another chance to see if they'll do it again.

But if you've only known them for very little time, I would say try to find some new, better friends.