Is it worth risking it?

Question

I have this really good friend of mine (about 2 yearsof being friends) , a couple months ago he had a breakup with his exgirl. I always respected their relationship, but i felt in love with him. Now that they are not going out anymore should i risk our good friendship relationship and tell him my feeling for him?

(by the way he told me he was feeling lonely, but this could be because of his recent breakup i understand that.)

Answer 1

yeah tell him how you feel cuz if you don't then you are going to regret it.

Answer 2

Theres no reason why you can't tell him your feelings toward him. One word of advice though, he could still have feelings for his ex and might show more feelings for you because he is lonely, but on the other hand he might find out that he likes you better. I say go for it!  

Answer 3

I think you should take a chance. You don't want to ask yourself "what if I had just taking a chance with him". You don't want to life your life in regret! I say you roll the dice' you never know what can happen. This could all come out in your favor.

Good luck :)

Answer 4

hey thats ok take a go at it he might like u to if hes says is not gonna work out well then you know best of luck

Answer 5

Either you have to take him as he is or leave him to his destiny.

If you love him very much, why can't you marry him and settle down.

Answer 6

You only live once, I reckon you should go for it.

Answer 7

you will always regret it if you dont tell him...sure it might change your relationship,but maybe for the better! follow your heart and tell him how you feel!

you will also feel relieved that he knows!

Answer 8

Yes, u should ask, even if he turns u down, at least u can move on.  

Answer 9

tell him, cos if you leave it he may meet someone else in the meantime and he could feel the same for you right now since you are both good friends anyway.