Is it wrong I don't want her to go in the army?

Question

I have been with my fiancee for five years now and she recently decided to join the army. I know I should be supportive of her but I'm not. Am I being selfish by trying to talk her out of it?

Answer 1

I don´t think you are being selfish. In my opinion army is terrible. I don´t like violence or power abuse, and that happens a lot in the army. I would feel like you if a loved one decided to join the army.

Answer 2

She loves you no matter what, and maybe she feels like she is in a dead end job, and is sick of contributing to somebody else's bottom line. She wants to do something that makes her feel like she's actually doing some good in the world.

It's not dangerous, women are not allowed in combat positions. They get a lot of break time after the initial training. And ling weekends on every holiday. It's not going to be easy, but if you love each other, it'll work out.

Answer 3

No, your not being selfish.

If she actually cared about you or herself she wouldn't be joining the army.

Answer 4

No you are not ,,,, Women have NO place in the military other than as clerical or medical personnel ,,,, These women that want to join combat units only put themselves and those forced to serve with them in peril ,,,, Women just don't have the physical endurance ,,,, They are an added burden because the male counter parts are going to have divided attentions with trying to do what they have to do and looking out for her too ,,,,

I don't care what some of these women say or how they get puffed up over this but things are the way they are and no feminist movent or march on Washington D.C. is going to change it ,,,, There is NO woman alive or that ever lived or ever will live that could have endured or survived the battle of hill 937 in the Ashaw Valley in Viet Nam ,,,, It's more commonly known as Hamburger Hill and it isn't called Hamburger for nothing ,,,, G.I. Jane was just a movie ,,,, Men in a combat situation will die simply because she is there ,,,, So women who don't agree with this can puff up if they want but the truth is clear ,,,,  Currahee and Simper Fi ,,,,//

Answer 5

No you are not!  What is her mos..   Let's just hope she does not get shipped out to you know where...   Nah man you have the right to feel like that...  Can you be faithful can she  be faithful.. y don't you join so you can be with her.  Is she full time or reserve man good luck man stay positive.  If she loves you she will come back if she does not man  then there are more women out there.. n e kids together

Answer 6

well..

tell you care and you personally don't agree..

but don't make her choose between you and something she loves.

it'll hurt her...

and no,ur not being selfish.you just love her.

:]

xoxo

~feriell~