Is it wrong for a father to m********e in the presence of his 4 and 5 year old children?

Question

How wrong is it?

A friend came home to her husband masturbating in their living room with their 4 and 5 year old children present (but not necessarily paying attention). The father was left watching the kids and was careless more than intentional. I argue that it's wrong in any circumstances and my friend makes excuses for her husband. What do you think?

Answer 1

Masturbating is wrong just alone.

And that is sickening, in front of his kids.

Answer 2

I think it's absolutely disgusting. He should be charged with endangering the welfare of a child.

Answer 3

"Hubby" belongs in jail with the rest of the pervs!

Answer 4

Its wrong! The children do not need to see that, and its pretty sick that he would do that in front of them....can you say potential child rapist!

Answer 5

There is a time and a place as  for some saying masturbation is wrong then NO its not BUT yes when children are there that's just disgusting !

Answer 6

That is absolutely repulsive and most likely grounds for the children to be removed from the home. He would have found his belongings on the curb with the trash, the locks changed and been handed divorce papers. Just disgusting. Also, anyone with functioning above the brain stem knows better than to watch p**n in the main living area of a home where children are awake and present. That by itself is wrong, even if he was just watching it!

Answer 7

It is sick. What was he getting off on? I would seriously worry about that kind of behaviour

Answer 8

Children should learn some things are private,

it is important that they learn that,

and parents are supposed to be role models

Children are also very attentive,

there is very small probability that they have not witnessed this act.

Answer 9

Oh wow I would be leaving him if she is smart she will, he has no inhibitions that is pretty strange to say the least. She makes excuses she is not very bright what could excuse that, oh he was too lazy to walk into the bathroom ?

Answer 10

CPS time, seriously.

Answer 11

I would have flipped.  I can't believe she thinks it is okay.

Answer 12

i think that is very disgusting and its very very very wrong

Answer 13

Get the kids away from their father.  Kids don't understand those things yet.  

Answer 14

there might of been a britney spears concert on the tv and he got caught up in the moment and totally forgot about the young children playing in the room.

may god have mercy on his soul..

Answer 15

What the ****, that is just sick, man.  

Answer 16

Not only is it wrong, but it may be considered sexual abuse.  It's the same as showing p*rn to a minor.  Your friend needs to stop making excuses before someone calls CPS on her family.

Answer 17

SICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its very wrong. Id be concerned simply for the fact that he can get a bo-ner and get off with his kids in the room. NOT NORMAL!!

Answer 18

Id be getting that pervert away from them children. That is down right disgusting!!!

Answer 19

That is more than wrong. It may not be direct but that is concidered a form of sexual abuse. I understand she is your friend but you need to report that before those children are scarred for life.

Answer 20

I think it's very sick. It wasn't carelessness. He knew the children were in the room. If I was your friend, he'd be outta there. He probably should be reported.

Answer 21

That's disgusting.  

Answer 22

Wrong in any circumstances.  Realistically he should a)be able to control himself and not m********e if kids are home or b) do so in the bathroom without p**n.

Someone should be reporting him.

Answer 23

VERY.

Answer 24

Everything about it is wrong!!!  

Answer 25

definitely wrong time to do that, he should do it when there are no children of any age around.