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Is it wrong for me not to like her?

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ok there's this new girl dani who i was friendly to the first week of school cuz she didnt know anyone or anything but it's been 3 weeks now and i'm the only person she socializes with like at all! she's so shy that she wont branch out and meet other people too. i didnt like her the first week but i felt bad for her cuz she didnt know anyone. she follows me around, she constantly calls/texts me. she never stops talking and she seriously follows me EVERYWHERE, i know i already said that but it's REALLY annoying cuz i need my space and i like time to talk to my other friends and she is always there! is it wrong for me not to like her?? i need space, and she annoys the c**p out of me and i dont know what to do! i ignore her half the time when she talks, i dont act like her best friend, i dont act interested or anything soo idk why she finds me so appealing but i'm getting really annoyed that none of my methods are working. what should i do? i dont answer her calls or texts.

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  1. Is not wrong for you not to like her. Something similar happened to me. You could either hang out with your other friends someplace else, somewhere where she doesn't know and she can't find you easily. Eventually she'll understand. If not, you can try to find out what she likes and find people that are into the same things. Talk well about people. Maybe she'll want to meet new people that way. Good luck!


  2. she might be a little slow? or might have social issues. i would hate for you to ignore her if something is wrong with her mentally. idk about her. i just hate for anyone to be hurt. it sucks to be a lonely person. and being a kid is tough. tell her nicely. maybe she needs to be helped to meet other people. you seem like you have a good heart so im sure you'll do the right thing. do what you would want someone to do to you, and treat her the same way if you were in her position.  

  3. It's okay not to like some one but be nice she's new and is shy. Introduce her to people and tell her to please stop calling and texting so much

  4. It's okay not to like someone, just don't make it well-known that you dislike her or she may hear about it and end up with hurt feelings. What you need to do is introduce her to others and get her talking to other people. She will eventually learn to socialize with others and then she won't constantly be bothering you. Once you get her to start talking to other people, she'll know so many people that she will probably consider friends that she won't have time to follow just one person. She will have to spend a little time with everyone and learn how to be more sociable. That way, she'll gain some friends, not to mention more social skills, and you'll gain some space!

  5. introduce her to some new people, like maybe dorks (no offense) just so they wont push her back to you

    Good luck oh and it isnt wrong for u 2 dislike her

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