Is it wrong for me to think that my pisces....?

Question

sister is a dumb a s s for actually having s*x with a guy who has three children with different mothers and the last one was born less than a year ago because he cheated on her because she wouldn't give it up? so she actually has s*x with him (he could have STD's for all she knows...he probably wouldn't even know) and gets pregnant.

Is it wrong for me to think she's a real dumb a s s for doing this?

she agitates the h**l out of me. she's too d**n emotional to the point where she makes stupid decisions (exhibit A- she's pregnant by a man who still lives with his mother and has three kids). she would walk all over me if I would let her. she lies A LOT and is manipulitive. she's really starting to get on my nerves.

how can I deal with her?

Answer 1

What I find interesting about your question is where you claim you have not told her how you feel as you fear it might "hurt her feelings.."  perhaps if you and others would just throw out all the worrying about how she may *feel* and tell her exactly how you think she is s******g up her life and making mistakes that don't need to be made ( although, with some people, I think it's their path in life to learn something from doing things that others find so blatatantly stupid ) she might actually get a clue and get on the straight and narrow.  The way you describe your sister here makes her sound extremely self centered and narcissistic.  She does what she wants and most likely has no use for someone unless they can do something for her.  The bottom line to your main question of whether it's ok for you to think she is a dumb ___ is that you are entitled to think anything you like.  How to deal with her?  Well, there you have a choice:  Either keep walking on eggshells and not give her the piece of mind you would love to ..or you can actually impart your opinion, but don't expect it to sink in too deep.  You won't be able to change her, you can only change how you react to her.