Is it wrong marring someone that isn't from the same background

Question

my man is black in i'm mexican in we want to have a baby.yea is going to be mix but my some parts of my family dosen't think that is wrong but they wanted me to married a mexican in keep the generation mexican but i think different..marry the person that you love

Answer 1

Marrying who you love is very important. Race doesnt matter, its all in your heart. If you love him and he loves you,you guys just belong together, no matter what.Your children will be beautiful you, because you'll see yourself and your husband in them, so it wouldnt matter anyway.

Best Wishes,

Seinna  

Answer 2

I don't think it's wrong, you should marry who you love!  If you love eachother, f**k what everyone else thinks!  Plus mixed children are beautiful too

Answer 3

I look at it this way

it is better to have the child grow up with two parents who love each other!

what are you teaching this child about love?

you will show your child that love is one of the greatest things!

your family can still teach your child about his or her heritage and the world is mixed anyway so don't worry about the mixed thing and let your family know that the child will grow up with the love of his or her parents and the teachings of your family's proud heritage!

blessings to you and your husband and the family you will both have!

Answer 4

i think if yall love each otehr then go for it  

Answer 5

NO,period.

Answer 6

I say, marry the one you love.  Whatever makes you two happy...it will be a very loved baby.

Answer 7

this is not a bad thing in itself. however, it can bring a lot of stress since you would each be somewhat new to the other's culture. family members from either side may not relate easily with members from the other. i always try to talk friends not to marry partners from diff backgrounds. lots of uneasyness. it can and has been done by many successfully.

Answer 8

NO!!!! I think thats great and if you are in love no nothing anyone says should change your mind

Answer 9

nothing wrong with that!

and plus your mix with your boyfriend..you'll have super cute kids! lol.

Its always hard when you marry outside the race and your family expects you to keep traditions.

my family is like that too.

But theres nothing wrong with having diversity. And your family wont have a problem with you marrying your boyfriend because they will see that you are truly in love and he loves you.

Your family cant be upset with you being happy. Dont worry about what people say and live your life!

remember. Love is a precious thing and it comes in many forms. If people hate just let them hate because love is more than color.

hope everything works out!

best of luck

p.s. I know maybe your worried about where your kids will fit in, but its family. No matter how different someone may be, the same blood still flows in their veins. Family is always family.

Answer 10

i dont think its wrong but i wouldn't do it to each is own

Answer 11

the only problem with marryin  out of your race is that what will the child do. they can't run to mexicans cause the little thing is black and he can't run to blacks cause hes mexican that is what is wrong. its harder for kids to beable to deal with life being two things yes some mexicans want only one blood and frankly if you can deal with it being prejudice you can do it its your choice but remember the kids it will affect them deeply and be ugly some times for them. its very hard for them. you hae to do what you feel it right but remember it won't be easy and it can be that you will have to live in certain areas caus eof mixed marriages. take care.

Answer 12

You should marry the one you love and are happy wit. Dont worry with what other people have to say. Yes there will always be haters but if your love is strong then you have NOTHING to worry about.  I'm going to marry my man.. i'm white and he's black... and I'm wanting some babies too... I love little mixed babies lol well actually I jus love all babies :) but ya. Keep your head up. No need to feel ashamed. My family would rather I marry a white guy but I found my match. So i'm gonna do my thing if they don't like it tough!

Answer 13

your right...marry the person you love. if you listen to your family you will regret it and end up hating yourself for listining to them  

Answer 14

I will give yiou the same advice I gave my cousin when she told me she was in a g*y relationship and the family wouldn't understand.  "It is hard enough in this world to find that certain somone who is worthy of you who you love and who loves you back unconditionally without putting all kinds of stigma on race, religion or s*x.  If they are good to you and you know in your heart it is right, then your family will eventually grow to see and love them just as you do."  My cousin recently lost her partner, they were together for 15 years and our whole family had embraced and loved her as part of our lives too.

Life is too short not to love with all your heart.  

Answer 15

Well you love him and you want to be with him right? So just do what you want to do you only have one chance at life so make it right and love life no matter what! XD

Jade

Answer 16

its not wrong at all your family will get over it unless the guy your marrying is an a$$hole