Is it wrong not to like him because he's had s*x? He's just not appealing anymore..

Question

There's a guy I've met in 9th grade who's had a huge crush on me since then. Now we're gonna be in 12th grade and he STILL likes me and wants me to consider going out with him...still. He'd be ok if he wasn't a pervert and a womanizer..or WAS. He told everyone that this summer he changed because he didnt like his old self, and so far it seems like he has.But, I've found out during this summer he had s*x for the first time with a girl he met on vacation. Now I dont even want to be around him! He didnt want me to find out because he knew i would react this way. Now he's begging my friends to convince me he really HAS changed. The fact that he had s*x has repelled me from him. Ive wanted to date a guy who had the morality to wait till marriage.Is it wrong not not be attracted or even like him because of what he's done?

Answer 1

I think you are right, it's not wrong to be not attracted to him because of this reason. i think u should stick with ur choice so far

Answer 2

I think you should give him a chance.

Especially if he's liked you that long.

Answer 3

You are looking for a guy that has the same morals and values as you.  While I personally think it is a little prudish to reject someone for having s*x before marriage.  I see your side and respect you for the position you hold.

Keep your chin and look for someone else who holds the same values as you.